I have heard a lot about this, but honestly it all seems like conjecture to me, women have not yet come close to overtaking men in the ultra distances. The two best thus far have been Ann Trason and Yionnos Kuorros, Trason ran 144 miles in the 24 hour run, Kuorros ran 188, they are not even close. The thing is both mens and women's ultra marathoning isn't highly developed but the gap at the very top is not any closer. I do recall however a few years ago a Japanese women set a WR in 100k run that was only 6% off the men's record.
One thing that has been overlooked is the ability to put in the extreme training required for these distances, perhaps theoretically women have advantages but men have shown the ability to train at higher volumes and intensity (Ikangaa, Bedford, Lindgren, Kenyans) and generally seem more durable which could be enough to overcome some of the innate advantages women may have by training their bodies better. Just a thought.
Perhaps women will be better but right now they're not and it isn't that close, once the sport has developed more we'll see.