Just don’t do it.
Just don’t do it.
At that, meetings with female employees without a chaperone on speaker or physically present would also be foolhardy.
This day and age being alone with anyone might not be wise. Keep the door open.
ruined the ending wrote:
At that, meetings with female employees without a chaperone on speaker or physically present would also be foolhardy.
This is so stupid. Because 3/4ths if our management team is female and half our workforce I meet with unchaperoned females every day. Sometimes behind closed doors…oooooohhhhh!
Really there’s nothing to fear you lowlife incels.
Jefe in the CO wrote:
ruined the ending wrote:
At that, meetings with female employees without a chaperone on speaker or physically present would also be foolhardy.
This is so stupid. Because 3/4ths if our management team is female and half our workforce I meet with unchaperoned females every day. Sometimes behind closed doors…oooooohhhhh!
Really there’s nothing to fear you lowlife incels.
That’s on you then. Couldn’t care any less what kind of ridiculous name calling you regress to. Just remember that you were warned.
ruined the ending wrote:
At that, meetings with female employees without a chaperone on speaker or physically present would also be foolhardy.
If you don't act like dirt bag, you'll be fine.
ruined the ending wrote:
That’s on you then. Couldn’t care any less what kind of ridiculous name calling you regress to. Just remember that you were warned.
Oh, ok, well then, thanks for the warning?
track director wrote:
Just don’t do it.
What the hell brought that about? A story behind it possibly? Just be your good decent self and go on with life.
I've been coaching women/men for 20 years, never had a borderline interaction. Yes, some of the women are attractive and interested, but just move past it and be a professional. Never had the slightest problem. Maybe you should try not being a creep.
News to me wrote:
I've been coaching women/men for 20 years, never had a borderline interaction. Yes, some of the women are attractive and interested, but just move past it and be a professional. Never had the slightest problem. Maybe you should try not being a creep.
Why should you have to spurn attractive and interested women just because a portion of women make up allegations? Are you heterosexual? Do you produce normal levels of testosterone?
1. Because I am their coach and authority figure, and there's a built-in power imbalance.
You're last two questions are irrelevant and of course the answer is yes to both.
I recommend that you don't coach women, it appears you lack a moral compass and couldn't handle the responsibility.
News to me wrote:
1. Because I am their coach and authority figure, and there's a built-in power imbalance.
So much authority that YOU get to decide whether they're okay with that. They have no right to be interested, not their choice.
Personally, If I (male) were a coach, I would only train male athletes and let female coaches train female athletes.
There are certain things about women's physiques and mentality that men are not meant or capable to understand, therefore might just save yourself the trouble.
Does this apply to adult teams as well? I coach an adult intramural team, and I was thinking of asking one of the ladies on the team out. But this thread is giving me second thoughts. If they're over 40 is it okay?
Master of Lolly wrote:
There are certain things about women's physiques and mentality that men are not meant or capable to understand, therefore might just save yourself the trouble.
This is just stupid. Lord, forbid that men understand biology and physiology!!!
Avoid coaching females. Might have to deal with toxic feminists like Molly huddle.
What point would be okay for me to be alone with her. She's about 45 and I'm about 55. Should I try to arrange for a double date if she says yes. Anyway This Thread is definitely make me rethink things. I would really like to date her butt you're suggesting I should not be alone with her. Please give some advice
track director wrote:
Just don’t do it.
Why?
Do you have this low self control? Have you always seen women as a sexual target?
Just keep every and any relationships proper all will be fine.
Also, don’t start with the “BuT WhAt AbOuT FaLs AllEgaTiOns!?” Because if that’s what you’re afraid of, I’ll give you a solution to overcome that fear:
Take a pen and a paper and write down a list of the names of ALL the men you personally know who have lost everything they had because of a false allegation and ask one of your friend, man or woman, to write down a list of the names of ALL the women they personally know who have been sexually abused or sexually assaulted.
Then compare said lists.
Only you decides if you can have proper relationships with women. Good luck.
It's just a matter of risk assessment.
Risk of Coach Females:
1. accused of being a creep (sexually)
2. accused of being "abusive" -by abusive I mean pushing someone past their normal performance in the gym, at the track etc..
3. accused of NOT giving the female 100% of your attention and/or best advice.
Risk of NOT Coaching Females:
The Jewish religion figured this out thousand of years ago.
A man and a woman are not allowed to be together alone behind a closed door. Unless they are married of course.
Why are we trying to reinvent the wheel?
All these “new” problems were figured out a long time ago