The accusation that Trump is dismissive of soldiers is based on individual statements, not the broader actions of his presidency, which included military pay raises and efforts to strengthen veterans' services.
Someone needs to read Hannah Arendt’s "The Origins of Totalitarianism." Trump's communication and decision-making are informed by a vast network of experts and advisors rather than individual actions. No president was ever expected to process every single piece of information personally. The primary focus is on making informed decisions, often through a network of experts, not on how much reading the president does in isolation.
In one way you are arguing that he is expected to know everything and rely on himself to know everything personally like with the Lithuania situation you mentioned, while simultaneously arguing that he is a bad authoritarian who relies on and answers to himself alone. Or as you put it, his "yes men." This is stupid. You boxed yourself into a corner.
Presidential decision-making is delegated to experts and guided by democratic oversight, as outlined in the U.S. Constitution's system of checks and balances.
What other outlandish, childish claims are next.