My wife has absolutely no libido anymore.

Kipketer_Pumpkin_Eater wrote:

I apologize.

I thought you might be some anonymous individual who keeps changing their names and who has over the years, made intermittent, short and substance-less quips about my verbose writing style. They are rare but they have occurred with some frequency over a long period, and the anonymous name-changing poster always seems to suggest they "know" who I am (whatever that means).

No worries.

I like your verbose writing style, and as I have you here, how did you attain it?

I simply found it to be very...similar to someone else in here. Can't remember that users nickname, and it was not yours. I was only curious. Keep it up.

Yes, I can see how that could bee seem to suggest I thought what you wrote was nonsense, I just didn't want to quote the whole comment as it was fairly long.

Don't worry about anonymous douchebags, probably just bored and/or using this as a way to let out some anger. Or they are just douchbags. Doesn't matter.

I'll look at the nutrition comment and ask about it later if you don't mind.

You were the first to call troll. Not only the "I'm new here, but none of the times are consistent. First not asking for sex lasted 4 months then not asking was 1 and 1/2 months at the end of the journal, then the comment of the journal starting about a year ago, then 3x after the talk at the same average it doesn't add up.It good have been a good troll because its an issue this guy has but he over reached. Actually if he just started the thread honestly with a comment, why do I always have to initiate or why do I feel when we make love she seems to approach it like its her duty.

t-rater wrote:

Hudson99 wrote:

Hi

I'm new here

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Hey I think I'm about done posting here, but I wanted to quickly say I'm sorry for coming across the wrong way. I really didn't mean to make it sound as though all the duties were placed on the man in the marriage, definitely not! I completely agree with you and with many others who have misunderstood my original post that it is a two-way deal in a marriage, and that both the husband and wife must give and take with one another for the marriage to run smoothly. The reason I was focusing more on how the man may help the situation was because a man posted the beginning of this thread and I was attempting to help him out in understanding how to best reach his wife rather than the other way around. Also, for those who misunderstood my original post, my husband and I definitely both give and take in our marriage and I definitely didn't mean to make it sound as though he does everything for me and that's why I give him sex - no, what a terrible thing that would be!! He is so much more to me than that, and I am so much more to him than a sex object. Thank you for your thoughts!

Of all of us your post had the most class and content. In case you didn't know it posting on Let's Run is like submarine warfare. You get to be underwater shooting torpedoes at passing ships ( posters ).

Now and then you get depth charged but mostly you get away to fight another day.

Oh but let a top class runner post here and all of these submarines come to the surface to wave flags, kiss butt and prostrate themselves before real talent.

Have you tried fingering her bum during sex?

If that doesn't work, why don't you just start banging hookers as a new hobby?

I am still waiting for Ventolin with his calculator to compute how long this relationship can sirvive

Honestly, get out now. As others have said, it won't improve. You are still young enough to find someone else. I know that sounds harsh, but so does the next 40 years without sex.

5.5 years later, how are you doing OP?

is op update? wrote:

5.5 years later, how are you doing OP?

By now he probably realized she had no libido for him and was actually being plowed by someone else.

t-rater wrote:

Hudson99 wrote:

Hi

I'm new here

0/1

Yeah, dead give away bro. You wouldn’t stumble upon a running forum and ask for sex life advice.

Shame on all those that responded. You need to sort out your troll-dars.

0/10

There is more to life than doing the deed. Your wife is someone you should love and cherish. I'm a big respecter and appreciator of girls. I wouldn't be asking my wife to do the deed with me all the time and putting pressure on her. Respect her feelings and wishes. You are lucky to have her. If I was married I would concentrate on doing what she wants because she is my soulmate.

of all your idiotic posts, this might be the most idiotic of all because it works on so many idiotic levels

Worst. Post. Ever.

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MeHereYouWhere?! wrote:

Serious question here. Is she on any type of depression meds or anything like that? There have been several case studies that show a severe drop in libido levels when one is on those meds.

What about the dildo?

Okay, I’m

Basically like ur wife just without the dildo. I don’t have much of a drive but I also work all day and have 4 kids. We do it because I have to and not cause I want to. The one thing that bothered me was my husband always felt he can have sex whenever he likes. If he initiates I must oblige or he pouts and doesn’t help me with the family tasks. This I think is where it all started. It became a chore because he made it a chore. It was always about HIM and his needs. Even if baby was crying in the crib or the kids were in the other room (awake). It was never pleasurable and I was just waiting to get to the unattended kids. Then at night I was sooo tired and just want to go to bed! Anyways. I reversed this on him. I started saying, hey quick let’s do it..as he got home from work or whenever it was convenient for me... Sometimes he’d be annoyed and I was like well this is the only time I can do it today.

this is true wrote:

barry mccockiner wrote:

0/10 because you're wrong. Bang a few more and you'll find out.

If women love sex so much, why do gay guys have so much sex, straight couples have a medium amount of sex, and lesbians have practically zero sex a few years into their relationships. The common denominator here isn't men that don't know how to please a woman, it is women.

This is interesting, but not completely conclusive. It could be that most men have a high enough sex drive that gay couples continue to have sex even if it isn't particularly good sex, whereas women only typically don't have sex when it isn't good. Maybe women could desire sex as much as men if it was better for them.