Anyone else here had political fights within family over the last 4 years? I have always restrained myself around family members when they've brought up politics to try to preserve the peace, but there were several cases where it was too agonizing and I had to push back hard. A few of them really went deep into trumpland and haven't come out, including my old man unfortunately. With some thankfully there is still discourse, but it is extremely tiring. On election week they all went radio silent in the family chat, but only when those swing states started to turn. I stayed quiet until Thursday when a few started to spew the fake fraud allegations.. I ripped them all for days after and again on Saturday the chat went completely silent. I wish they never had brought up politics, but what can I do, I have a backbone and integrity.
With respect to my old man, I think I figured it out eventually. He was the type of guy who always noticed disadvantaged people and stuck his neck out for them. He wanted fair treatment around him, and expected people to keep their word and take ownership for mistakes. That's what he taught me growing. He was never really into politics most of his life. Then there was a change in 2016/7. He had experienced some huge setbacks financially and personally and suddenly started consuming pro-trump content. I am sure he got caught up in it all due to his vulnerability and emotional weakness at the time... exactly how you hear about someone in a bad state getting swept up by a cult or vice. It is so much easier to lean on scapegoats than to take a cold hard look at yourself in the mirror and self assess. Trumpism is a plague.
"To be clear, this was never about a difference of political opinion. We've gotten through that before. This was about a fundamental difference in morality, integrity and decency and a person who exemplifies none of those things."
https://edition.cnn.com/2020/11/10/opinions/trump-tore-my-family-apart-eldredge/index.html