When I said that making demands is a terrible strategy (for life and for running), the thing that I’m getting at is, you can’t control circumstances and you can’t control the outcomes. You can only control yourself (e.g. your training, your sleep schedule, your race strategy, etc).
He alluded to in his interview, coming in with the attitude that ‘I have to do great in this race, because my mom took time off work to come watch’ and ‘i have to win races because my little sister can’t look up to me if go home as fifth loser.’
And, obviously, the universe was totally deaf to those demands. The universe didn’t give him the win just because his mom took off work. The universe didn’t give him the win because of absentee biological father.
Anyways, I get where you’re coming from in the theory that maybe Marco Langon is drawing daily motivation from the idea of needing to be there for his family, and from the idea of being the underdog with an absentee father. It sounds good on paper.
In reality, i think that it’s hard to translate the “rocky balboa fearless new jersey underdog trying-to-do-the-right-thing” narrative, into the unglamorous behaviors that give him the best chance of reaching his potential as a runner over the next two or three years. Ideally, a runner needs to be thorough and motivated enough to do non-macho things like going to bed at a decent hour, foamrolling your calves, not getting drunk before key races, and even (get this!) running an NCAA final conservatively enough so as to have a kick left for the final 100m.