Start up your own business in something your passionate about or will make you money, and run it alongside your full time job until it becomes ones profitable.
Do something to change your life.
Move to a rural area and commute to work? Move to another country to work? Build your own house?
I think you've probably missed the boat as far as relationships are concerned. Most of the best women are snapped up soon after university. If you choose a partner well, they make your life more fulfilling, help you buy a better home (if there's two of you) and you do not have to waste half your life doing pointless dating. My friends are mostly lawyers and doctors, they are all fit, slim and good looking, earning well and moving into larger houses with 2 foreign holidays per year. You will not meet one of these women playing computer games or on internet forums.
You have a very one dimensional view on life. We are not all wealthy and privileged Americans.
Brolly is 100% correct--a lot of females in the running space (at least in OH) are upper-middle class, white (usually) have at least a BS/BA in some technical field, and are competitive (2:40-4:00 women are everywhere in Columbus, and even the 4:00-6:00 women have great jobs and are set for life). Very few women in those running spaces play video games, live with their parents, or have low-paying jobs like security guards, car detailers, that men get stuck with. Plus, many of these women wear BQ jackets and talk about 6-star finisher medals, going to Berlin and Tokyo, and other overseas races. It's a very, very privileged sport but I also see how it dovetails with having great jobs/careers.
(This goes for the men too, adjust to 2:15-3:00).
Women rule the corporate world now and men have to adjust!
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