I went down an internet rabbit hole on the Roches (in response to this thread) a week or two ago and didn't find much on Reddit that struck me as terrible. All I remember are complaints about the lack-of-attention on the coaching front and losing the training data, the latter of which, if there isn't a decent reason, would be super irritating to me too.
Believe it or not, I'm not trying to hold up the Roches as all that is good and pure in the world, just haven't seen anything imo that justifies the vitriol. Page after page after page of it. But, like I said, I'd be interested if there really were bad practices. Not because I have any stake in it, but I'm curious like a lot of people (hence the 44-page thread).
I appreciate that you don't want to dox yourself, but you should also appreciate that people going nuts (not you) on minor celebrities in the dark corners of the internet like the LRC forum can and should be met with skepticism absent compelling evidence.