edward teach wrote:
Her message that there is nothing wrong with being obese and that you don't need to change your body seems to resonate with people her size. I suspect a lot of them are already on mobility scooters or in wheelchairs, so life is effectively over for them, at that point I can't fault someone for staying fat, they screwed up so royally that their bodies can't support themselves. But for the most part, obese people can stand and walk.
At 30-40 years old, why don't they say wait a minute, half my life is ahead of me, and the half I've lived hasn't been so great, I should try to make the most of it. Yet, their solution is to usually double down. Like don't people think about what life would be like if they were healthier and look forward to that?
That's what strikes a cord with me, too, edward.
I'm not for fat-shaming, but I also truly can't understand or accept the mental gymnastics employed by those who actively hate and belittle people who are, or want to be, healthy and active.
I'm no svelte model nor beneficiary or high metabolism (and middle age isn't helping), but just by seeing the scientific evidence and experiences of countless people, improving one's activity levels and diet benefit one's mental state as well as physical. Who wouldn't want that?