JOB: Owner, private healthcare businesses
HOURS: 50 hours--I include 8 hours of traffic jam commuting in this number.
I choose to consider all hours I am away from home as work--all tasks I would NOT be doing if I was independently wealthy. I think this gives us a clearer glimpse of our quality of life, and prevents us from fooling ourselves over how much work is asking of us.
Also, as owner, thinking about work never stops, and "on call" is truly 24/7.
PAY: netting $350k the past few years
36 yo.
HAPPINESS: 6/10.
I am incredibly thankful for my blessings. I have a beautiful wife and kids.
I have my health, and am able to make time for exercise several times per week, which is my biggest source of stress relief. We live in the beautiful SF bay area.
Lowering my happiness score: Private healthcare is on the way out. My consultants tell me 70% of doctors are now employees of larger institutions. I would be shocked if my particular niche was still there in 10 years. My specialty can do well as business owner, but maxes out in low $100k as an employee--nothing to cry about, but quite a comedown from current levels.
We live in the SF bay area, where the costs are huge, and also causes one to constantly second guess one's life choices if you're not a millionaire by 25.
I've realized I like making good $$$ much more than I care about my current job, so if the gravy train stops, I would need to do something else, but what? My skills are very narrowly tied to my current career.
So I would be at 9/10 happiness if I thought my future was secure, but the massive sense of foreboding weighs on me heavily each day, and brings me down to 6/10. I have a constant sense of being in an engine-less glider, floating along as best as possible, but hyper-aware that the music is going to stop.