Well, I did say it was anecdotal. What is true is that everyone I have seen step out of a Veloster has been a douchebag...some with clear other signs like vaping or flat brimmed hats. I haven't seen YOU step out of yours, so perhaps you are the exception.
The Kona is awesome, and the Kona N would be even better. I HIGHLY recommend it.
Some things though:
1) Trunk space is VERY small. Not a big deal for us since it's just The Lovely Mrs. Flagpole and me since the kids are out of the house, and the rear seats fold down if we need more room for big things, but just the trunk as it is designed, it's pretty small.
2) ONE of the reasons I like the Kona so much is that it has a tons of newer technology that my other cars didn't, so to be fair, MOST new cars would have them...backup camera, big screen that can show GPS, Amazon Music songs to scroll through, etc., lane assist, warning beeps and lights as you might back up or switch lanes if something is there, etc.
3) We got the AWD version, and it is 4WD at the push of a button. This is awesome, and I've benefitted from it greatly this winter. My wife loves that feature especially and the backup camera.
4) It is a very nice looking small SUV. One of the best looking mass produced cars on the road in my opinion. If I were in the market for another car (which I could be as one of my other two cars is a 2011 Honda CRV which still is great, but who knows when it will be time to get rid of that one), I would seriously consider a Hyundai Venue. Images online don't do it justice. One of my neighbors has one, and it is badass.
Anyway, I see you getting a Kona N as a BIG STEP UP from the Veloster.