Glad to know that I am faster than a pig. At running that is . . . .
OP -- As for stopping the wedding, give it up. Hag will marry redneck and there's nothing you can do about it. Rest assured they'll be sick of each other in 18 months, so you will have justice. Focus on your kids -- they need you.
Why did you let yourself get two kids with the woman you love without marrying her?
Marriage is a dream of many ladies. Even the career oriented ladies once in a while think of marriage just for the experience of it all.
You didn't give her that experience and I bet she felt insecure despite having two kids with you as you are not married.
And no matter how many kids you do have, if you are not married, you can't stop her wedding unless the guy he is marrying don't know about the kids and react in your favor.
You could have thought that someday despite how many kids a woman has or how old she is, she won't miss someone who will give her a hand in marriage. This is real life!
I think today is the day if she is really going to atlantic city to do this.
What other meats can you purchase?
What is status of wedding ?