Break up with her now. Just the fact that she's telegraphing this means she is going to be cheating on you a lot in Nashville. You okay with that, Beta?
Breaking up with her in advance is always a good idea nowadays with people living together. Why does she need to go on a trip like that when she has an exciting sexy man available at home? That makes no sense. Try to break up amicably, let her know that you will always be a friend and that you respect her decision. Be the Butterfly.
Not really cheating but checking out the possible potential. Nashville is a subconscious move on her part that she's really looking for a super stud. Her parents most likely would like her to meet a real cowboy.
Every bar in Nashville has some Chad country singer and guitarist getting the ladies riled up and then they take 'em to the back after the show for some "shots." Your girlfriend is going to get passed around Tootsies like a lollipop at a daycare for poor kids. Be secure in your masculinity and tell her that you will be joining her on this "girls trip" and acting as a chaperone.
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
Why are you in a monogamous relationship if you’re not mature enough for one? Just break up and be a lonely cad.
Every bar in Nashville has some Chad country singer and guitarist getting the ladies riled up and then they take 'em to the back after the show for some "shots." Your girlfriend is going to get passed around Tootsies like a lollipop at a daycare for poor kids. Be secure in your masculinity and tell her that you will be joining her on this "girls trip" and acting as a chaperone.
Have you people ever actually been to Nashville?
I know some of the people on this website can make it hard to tell the difference, but I feel like it was pretty obvious that I was joking.
I live in Clarksville, TN. At some point Nashville became an 'entertainment destination'. People, usually young women, plan trips to Nashville to rent party buses, go dancing at fake honky tonks along Broadway and otherwise just have a good time. I would imagine because it is cheaper than Vegas and closer than Austin.
Meaning...some groups of women have a romanticized view of Nashville, honky tonks, and the culture there. So they plan trips to say 'I've danced on Broadway in Nashville'.
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
Meaning...some groups of women have a romanticized view of Nashville, honky tonks, and the culture there. So they plan trips to say 'I've danced on Broadway in Nashville'.
Alan
I don't mean this in a mean way, and it's hard to make this clear: I'm endlessly fascinated by the question of whether or not this is an authentic concern or just someone trolling. It's so close to 100 posts, and I love the sage advice mixed in with the usually tomfoolery. Could you share a few more things about Nashville? We...are...so...close...to...100. If it's a troll, I think it automatically levels up then.
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
Yes. Absolutely yes.
Look, you're already going to break up. You're an insecure, chauvinist dickwad, and she's a confident, assured outgoing woman with friends. your relationship is doomed anyway - might as well use this as an excuse to light the inevitable explosion.
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
you have literally no right to tell an adult woman what she can and can't do.
So 8nsecure. My wife goes on a girl's trip every year and I go on guys trips every year. I also do out of town races with friends. Neither of us is 8nsecure so we don't stress about it.
And you've been together only a year?
You said wife ..so I doubt it
We've been doing solo trips since we've met. 3 months after our first date she went to Vegas with 3 friends. I'm not insecure so didn't care. Even stayed at her place to watch her dogs for that trip.
I went to Europe with a mix of male and female friends a few months after our kid was born while she stayed home
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
I would encourage her to go. This will actually make her realise you trust her and are secure within yourself. She will respect you that much more and be much less likely to stray.
Or she’ll be giving lap dances to the first guy she meets in tight jeans. Which is it?
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
Tell her yes. Then hire a private detective to follow her and report on her actions. This is good investment regardless of how things turn out.
Let her go and stop worrying. She's just a woman, who can be replaced. Getting insecure and anxious will only turn her off and make it harder for you to recover if/when the relationship ends. Cultivating a more blase attitude towards relationships will increase the likelihood that you'll be the type of guy girls want to cheat WITH rather than ON - ask yourself which type of guy you'd rather be.
Anyways, she's probably not thinking of cheating on you on this trip, but who cares if she is?
Girlfriend of 1 year that I live with wants to go on a girls trip to Nashville with her friends. I’ve heard all the stories of how girls trips they cheat. Should I tell my girlfriend she can’t go?
you have literally no right to tell an adult woman what she can and can't do.
Thanks for pointing out the obvious Mr. White Knight! Maybe if you weren't being a virtue signaling dipsh!t you'd realize that he didn't mean it literally, he meant that if she goes on the trip the relationship ends.
One more post and we're at 100. C'mon letsrun community...we can do this!
And, OP...boooo! You could have made this 1000 times more interesting. Instead, you just sat back and enjoyed the show. Or just got on with your life. OK, I may need to retract that "boooo!"
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