Sorry, forgot to update. I walked out with her on Friday, so I wasn’t stalking. I asked if I could buy her a cup of coffee. She looked at her watch and said maybe another time.
I’ve got another appointment next Friday. I’ll just play it cool from here. If she leaves the door open, maybe I’ll find another PT…
Sorry, forgot to update. I walked out with her on Friday, so I wasn’t stalking. I asked if I could buy her a cup of coffee. She looked at her watch and said maybe another time.
I’ve got another appointment next Friday. I’ll just play it cool from here. If she leaves the door open, maybe I’ll find another PT…
Am I understanding you correct, so because this PT won't put out or go out with you this mean you are going to look for another PT that possibly will? I have a suggestion why don't you just go to PT for what it is intended for to get better? You seem sort of pathetic to me.
I went to physical therapy for the first time a couple of weeks ago. The practice requires everyone to wear masks, so I’m not quite sure what she looks like, but I think she’s pretty cute. I noticed when I walked into the exam/treatment room, she left the door wide open. And before testing the strength in my arms, she put on gloves. We seemed to have a good rapport, and she only hurt me a little. Fast forward to this morning: this time she almost closed the door all the way. It remained open a small crack. I’m not sure if that was intentional or not. This time, when she tested my arm strength, no gloves! We discussed a couple of hobbies we have in common. How do I make my move? I’ve been to physical therapy before where massage was part of the treatment. How do I guide us down this avenue?
Sorry, forgot to update. I walked out with her on Friday, so I wasn’t stalking. I asked if I could buy her a cup of coffee. She looked at her watch and said maybe another time.
I’ve got another appointment next Friday. I’ll just play it cool from here. If she leaves the door open, maybe I’ll find another PT…
Am I understanding you correct, so because this PT won't put out or go out with you this mean you are going to look for another PT that possibly will? I have a suggestion why don't you just go to PT for what it is intended for to get better? You seem sort of pathetic to me.
When OP first posted, I told him also "from a ladies POV" to spare the PT from his inappropriate advances, she's not into him, she's going to rebuff him and
Guys obsessing over and hitting on women who are just trying to do their jobs in a professional manner is creepy, predatory and pathetic. The fact that you are not just doing it, but you're on a message board talking about [it]... makes you seem all the more so.
Also, it's telling that OP chose to title his thread "I think physical therapist has a crush on me" rather than a truthful, accurate "I have a crush on physical therapist."
There's no evidence from what OP has said that the PT has been anything but professional, polite and cordial to him as anyone in her position would be with any client. But in a pattern that unfortunately is all too common amongst a certain kind of guy, OP has projected his own amorous feelings onto the woman, making it seem like she's the one who fancies and is hot to trot with him rather than vice versa.
OP sounds like the kind of fella who when an attractive female passerby, retail clerk, food server, cashier, classmate, team mate, co-worker, stranger on the subway, track or running trail, etc so much as glances in his direction with what appears to be a smile on her face will tell himself, "She wants me.."
Am I understanding you correct, so because this PT won't put out or go out with you this mean you are going to look for another PT that possibly will? I have a suggestion why don't you just go to PT for what it is intended for to get better? You seem sort of pathetic to me.
When OP first posted, I told him also "from a ladies POV" to spare the PT from his inappropriate advances, she's not into him, she's going to rebuff him and
Guys obsessing over and hitting on women who are just trying to do their jobs in a professional manner is creepy, predatory and pathetic. The fact that you are not just doing it, but you're on a message board talking about [it]... makes you seem all the more so.
Also, it's telling that OP chose to title his thread "I think physical therapist has a crush on me" rather than a truthful, accurate "I have a crush on physical therapist."
There's no evidence from what OP has said that the PT has been anything but professional, polite and cordial to him as anyone in her position would be with any client. But in a pattern that unfortunately is all too common amongst a certain kind of guy, OP has projected his own amorous feelings onto the woman, making it seem like she's the one who fancies and is hot to trot with him rather than vice versa.
OP sounds like the kind of fella who when an attractive female passerby, retail clerk, food server, cashier, classmate, team mate, co-worker, stranger on the subway, track or running trail, etc so much as glances in his direction with what appears to be a smile on her face will tell himself, "She wants me.."
Everything you stated is 100% what I am thinking OP is. This is primarily the reason why I fell in love with my husband, he was able to just be one of my best friends and I had to let him know I wanted something beyond friendship. He has never had an issue being friends with a female prior to us dating.