If you can't tell that I'm a guy from previous posts I've made on this thread (and on this website), I'm not sure how serious anyone should take anything you say. Not sure if you just started on page 4 but maybe read through the thread first so you don't get such simple stuff wrong.
And "the entire idea of casual sex is objectifying" is taking it too far. A silly level of generalization.
Whether you’re a man or not is irrelevant to the point. Replace “you” with “women.” My apologies for not noticing your illustrious history of masculine posts on LetsRun.
to address the actual point:
“Sexual objectification is the act of treating a person solely as an object of sexual desire.”
”Casual sex is sexual activity that takes place outside a romantic relationship and implies an absence of commitment, emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners.”
If there’s no commitment, emotional attachment, or familiarity, pretty much all that’s left is filling each others sexual needs. Which is fine, and frequently what both people want. Pretending that’s a ‘silly generalization’ and that there’s some greater nuance to it seems like the opinion of someone who can’t come to terms with a purely physical attraction being okay.
There is emotional attachment in casual sex. People don’t just meet each other silently and then go off to unemotionally bone. If you think that it’s impossible to have emotional attachment in a casual encounter, I would say that says more about you than it does casual sex.
If your motivation for having sex with lots of women is to attain the highest body count you can, then I am going to judge you for it. I think that’s weird and creepy and objectifying. It’s not weird if you’re just sexually active and enjoy it for what it is. It’s only weird if it’s some sort of competitive hierarchy thing.
LMAO at all these reason. The fact of the matter is nobody likes fat chicks and there's more of them than ever. There literally aren't enough 5/10 or above women around to make guys want to lose their virginities.
LMAO at all these reason. The fact of the matter is nobody likes fat chicks and there's more of them than ever. There literally aren't enough 5/10 or above women around to make guys want to lose their virginities.
Exactly...you hit it right on the head of the nail. Back in my younger days in the 1990s the obesity rate was around 20% - now it's more like 40% in some states. Overweight/obese younger women were a rarity back then - you mostly saw that with much older women. Nowadays you see a plethora of overweight/obese in their 20s & 30s. I see them all of the time at the gym I work out at.
As a below-average looking, ultra-short (5-6) bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast, health nut who's in great shape, these are the women that I attract. Lol. I've been hit on at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc. Some of these women are morbidly obese and come on strong. One at the gym, a 29 yr old who's 5-2, 210 lbs & outweighs me by 35 lbs! 😲 (she eagerly told me her weight & said she's been struggling with an eating disorder most of her life), told me how hot my physique looked & proceeded to ask me if I was married & all that. She seems to imply that I should be thrilled that she's interested in me. These women reject the obese guys that are after them, and knowing that they can't get the hot "Chads," they go for below-average looking fit guys like me (they're smart & know guys like me struggle to get with attractive, fit women). This is what social media has done with these obese women is inflate their perceived SVM.
Though I'm not sexual attracted to these big women (some have nice personalities & are fun to talk with) I could easy get laid by one of them & bail out hoping to never see her again. But I would like a relationship, a GF, a companion, etc. But there's a major conflict of interest in lifestyles, eating habits, hobbies, etc. The average to above-average looking fit, in-shape women are in such hot demand by so many thirsty men that only the top guys are going to have a fair chance. Overweight/obese women are growing in numbers & are in abundance, therefore, lower-tier guys don't have much of a choice.
LMAO at all these reason. The fact of the matter is nobody likes fat chicks and there's more of them than ever. There literally aren't enough 5/10 or above women around to make guys want to lose their virginities.
Exactly...you hit it right on the head of the nail. Back in my younger days in the 1990s the obesity rate was around 20% - now it's more like 40% in some states. Overweight/obese younger women were a rarity back then - you mostly saw that with much older women. Nowadays you see a plethora of overweight/obese in their 20s & 30s. I see them all of the time at the gym I work out at.
As a below-average looking, ultra-short (5-6) bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast, health nut who's in great shape, these are the women that I attract. Lol. I've been hit on at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc. Some of these women are morbidly obese and come on strong. One at the gym, a 29 yr old who's 5-2, 210 lbs & outweighs me by 35 lbs! 😲 (she eagerly told me her weight & said she's been struggling with an eating disorder most of her life), told me how hot my physique looked & proceeded to ask me if I was married & all that. She seems to imply that I should be thrilled that she's interested in me. These women reject the obese guys that are after them, and knowing that they can't get the hot "Chads," they go for below-average looking fit guys like me (they're smart & know guys like me struggle to get with attractive, fit women). This is what social media has done with these obese women is inflate their perceived SVM.
Though I'm not sexual attracted to these big women (some have nice personalities & are fun to talk with) I could easy get laid by one of them & bail out hoping to never see her again. But I would like a relationship, a GF, a companion, etc. But there's a major conflict of interest in lifestyles, eating habits, hobbies, etc. The average to above-average looking fit, in-shape women are in such hot demand by so many thirsty men that only the top guys are going to have a fair chance. Overweight/obese women are growing in numbers & are in abundance, therefore, lower-tier guys don't have much of a choice.
Can you make up for it with money? Like how much money do you make? Not enough to attract hot women I assume? Have you thought about buying a nicer car or wearing a suit more often? Are you in therapy talking about your self confidence issues? How would you feel if I just researched a bunch of 5-6 men and showed you that they have hot wives? Would you start to feel like it's maybe not your height or would you come up with a different reason to why women are attracted to them and not you?
Can you make up for it with money? Like how much money do you make? Not enough to attract hot women I assume? Have you thought about buying a nicer car or wearing a suit more often? Are you in therapy talking about your self confidence issues? How would you feel if I just researched a bunch of 5-6 men and showed you that they have hot wives? Would you start to feel like it's maybe not your height or would you come up with a different reason to why women are attracted to them and not you?
Science has answered that question. Shorter men can be as desirable as taller men if they earn significantly more money. I am unaware of any study showing that obese women can earn more and be more desirable to men. Although perhaps no one has asked Roseanne Barr's two husbands.
Science has answered that question. Shorter men can be as desirable as taller men if they earn significantly more money. I am unaware of any study showing that obese women can earn more and be more desirable to men. Although perhaps no one has asked Roseanne Barr's two husbands.
The short guys are worst not because they are short, but because they have such inferiority complexes about it. Be confident, don't be a Napoleon, then you'll be fine. The average woman is 5'3" or 5"4"; if you're 5'6" or so, you shouldn't have an issue finding a woman.
Now if she like the woman of your dreams? Probably not. Just like everyone is asking women to lower their standards, so should men. Crapping all over fat women when you're short. Pick a lane -- no one can have it all except maybe Tom Brady ... and now he's having marital problems.
BTW, women make their own money now so I'm not sure $175k really makes up for someone having issues because they are short.
Science has answered that question. Shorter men can be as desirable as taller men if they earn significantly more money. I am unaware of any study showing that obese women can earn more and be more desirable to men. Although perhaps no one has asked Roseanne Barr's two husbands.
The short guys are worst not because they are short, but because they have such inferiority complexes about it. Be confident, don't be a Napoleon, then you'll be fine. The average woman is 5'3" or 5"4"; if you're 5'6" or so, you shouldn't have an issue finding a woman.
Now if she like the woman of your dreams? Probably not. Just like everyone is asking women to lower their standards, so should men. Crapping all over fat women when you're short. Pick a lane -- no one can have it all except maybe Tom Brady ... and now he's having marital problems.
BTW, women make their own money now so I'm not sure $175k really makes up for someone having issues because they are short.
You're darn right I have an inferiority complex about my height! You would too if you were a shorty like me. I don't think you have a clue what's it's like being an ultra-short man in the good old U.S. of A. I'm a tad under 5-6 & despite having a muscular, bodybuilding physique through decades of hard work weighing in at 175 (15% BF), I'm still not taken serious by most women (who would have thought. Lol).
Let me school you: Society favors tall men. Height represents leadership, intelligence & masculinity. The vast majority of the Presidents are all over 6 foot. Trump is 6-3 & Biden is 6-0 (could you imagine a 5-6 Trump or Biden campaigning for President? 🤣). 60% of the CEOs of the Fortune 500 countries are over 6 ft. The Western action movie stars are all over 6 ft such as Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, James Colburn, etc. (could you imagine a 5-6 Clint Eastwood riding into town to fight the outlaws? 🤣). The Superhero action stars are over 6 ft such as Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, Chris Pratt, etc (could you imagine a 5-6 Thor, Aquaman or Superman trying to save the day? 🤣). Short men in these occupations wouldn't be taken seriously. Short men are better suited for comedy roles like the three stooges. Lol. Short men are looked upon for leadership & guidance.
And I'll admit I get hit on by overweight/obese women a lot (at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc). Just the other day, one of those really obese women with their belly hanging out all over their waist hit on me at the banana section of a grocery store (on my way home from the gym). She said I had a nice physique & asked me if I was married. She was probably pushing 250 (5-5) & had what appeared to be diabetic skin sores on her lower legs 😖. My 22 yr old son witnessed the incident from another section & laughed his butt off at his old man. Lol (I'm widowed). Because of social media elevating the perceived SMV of overweight/obese women - they go after less attractive, short men like me. They know they have no shot with the taller "Chads" but also know that ultra-short, less appealing guys like me struggle with attractive, fit, in-shape women. And it's funny that many of these obese women want nothing to do with other obese men, which they would have much more in common with.
So, as a bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast & health nut, I'm supposed to lower my standards & settle down with an obese woman? Please...don't you see a major conflict of interest there with eating & excercise habits & a completely different lifestyle? Lol.
The short guys are worst not because they are short, but because they have such inferiority complexes about it. Be confident, don't be a Napoleon, then you'll be fine. The average woman is 5'3" or 5"4"; if you're 5'6" or so, you shouldn't have an issue finding a woman.
Now if she like the woman of your dreams? Probably not. Just like everyone is asking women to lower their standards, so should men. Crapping all over fat women when you're short. Pick a lane -- no one can have it all except maybe Tom Brady ... and now he's having marital problems.
BTW, women make their own money now so I'm not sure $175k really makes up for someone having issues because they are short.
You're darn right I have an inferiority complex about my height! You would too if you were a shorty like me. I don't think you have a clue what's it's like being an ultra-short man in the good old U.S. of A. I'm a tad under 5-6 & despite having a muscular, bodybuilding physique through decades of hard work weighing in at 175 (15% BF), I'm still not taken serious by most women (who would have thought. Lol).
Let me school you: Society favors tall men. Height represents leadership, intelligence & masculinity. The vast majority of the Presidents are all over 6 foot. Trump is 6-3 & Biden is 6-0 (could you imagine a 5-6 Trump or Biden campaigning for President? 🤣). 60% of the CEOs of the Fortune 500 countries are over 6 ft. The Western action movie stars are all over 6 ft such as Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, James Colburn, etc. (could you imagine a 5-6 Clint Eastwood riding into town to fight the outlaws? 🤣). The Superhero action stars are over 6 ft such as Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, Chris Pratt, etc (could you imagine a 5-6 Thor, Aquaman or Superman trying to save the day? 🤣). Short men in these occupations wouldn't be taken seriously. Short men are better suited for comedy roles like the three stooges. Lol. Short men are looked upon for leadership & guidance.
And I'll admit I get hit on by overweight/obese women a lot (at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc). Just the other day, one of those really obese women with their belly hanging out all over their waist hit on me at the banana section of a grocery store (on my way home from the gym). She said I had a nice physique & asked me if I was married. She was probably pushing 250 (5-5) & had what appeared to be diabetic skin sores on her lower legs 😖. My 22 yr old son witnessed the incident from another section & laughed his butt off at his old man. Lol (I'm widowed). Because of social media elevating the perceived SMV of overweight/obese women - they go after less attractive, short men like me. They know they have no shot with the taller "Chads" but also know that ultra-short, less appealing guys like me struggle with attractive, fit, in-shape women. And it's funny that many of these obese women want nothing to do with other obese men, which they would have much more in common with.
So, as a bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast & health nut, I'm supposed to lower my standards & settle down with an obese woman? Please...don't you see a major conflict of interest there with eating & excercise habits & a completely different lifestyle? Lol.
You're darn right I have an inferiority complex about my height! You would too if you were a shorty like me. I don't think you have a clue what's it's like being an ultra-short man in the good old U.S. of A. I'm a tad under 5-6 & despite having a muscular, bodybuilding physique through decades of hard work weighing in at 175 (15% BF), I'm still not taken serious by most women (who would have thought. Lol).
Let me school you: Society favors tall men. Height represents leadership, intelligence & masculinity. The vast majority of the Presidents are all over 6 foot. Trump is 6-3 & Biden is 6-0 (could you imagine a 5-6 Trump or Biden campaigning for President? 🤣). 60% of the CEOs of the Fortune 500 countries are over 6 ft. The Western action movie stars are all over 6 ft such as Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, James Colburn, etc. (could you imagine a 5-6 Clint Eastwood riding into town to fight the outlaws? 🤣). The Superhero action stars are over 6 ft such as Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, Chris Pratt, etc (could you imagine a 5-6 Thor, Aquaman or Superman trying to save the day? 🤣). Short men in these occupations wouldn't be taken seriously. Short men are better suited for comedy roles like the three stooges. Lol. Short men are looked upon for leadership & guidance.
And I'll admit I get hit on by overweight/obese women a lot (at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc). Just the other day, one of those really obese women with their belly hanging out all over their waist hit on me at the banana section of a grocery store (on my way home from the gym). She said I had a nice physique & asked me if I was married. She was probably pushing 250 (5-5) & had what appeared to be diabetic skin sores on her lower legs 😖. My 22 yr old son witnessed the incident from another section & laughed his butt off at his old man. Lol (I'm widowed). Because of social media elevating the perceived SMV of overweight/obese women - they go after less attractive, short men like me. They know they have no shot with the taller "Chads" but also know that ultra-short, less appealing guys like me struggle with attractive, fit, in-shape women. And it's funny that many of these obese women want nothing to do with other obese men, which they would have much more in common with.
So, as a bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast & health nut, I'm supposed to lower my standards & settle down with an obese woman? Please...don't you see a major conflict of interest there with eating & excercise habits & a completely different lifestyle? Lol.
Does anything you just wrote sound manly or masculine to you?
WTH?...pointing out facts about how short men aren't taken serious in society? Didn't you see all the evidence I submitted about the Presidents, the actors, the CEOs of the Fortune 500 companies, etc? Did you read the link I posted? You're obviously not a short man or you would understand. 😉
The short guys are worst not because they are short, but because they have such inferiority complexes about it. Be confident, don't be a Napoleon, then you'll be fine. The average woman is 5'3" or 5"4"; if you're 5'6" or so, you shouldn't have an issue finding a woman.
Now if she like the woman of your dreams? Probably not. Just like everyone is asking women to lower their standards, so should men. Crapping all over fat women when you're short. Pick a lane -- no one can have it all except maybe Tom Brady ... and now he's having marital problems.
BTW, women make their own money now so I'm not sure $175k really makes up for someone having issues because they are short.
You're darn right I have an inferiority complex about my height! You would too if you were a shorty like me. I don't think you have a clue what's it's like being an ultra-short man in the good old U.S. of A. I'm a tad under 5-6 & despite having a muscular, bodybuilding physique through decades of hard work weighing in at 175 (15% BF), I'm still not taken serious by most women (who would have thought. Lol).
Let me school you: Society favors tall men. Height represents leadership, intelligence & masculinity. The vast majority of the Presidents are all over 6 foot. Trump is 6-3 & Biden is 6-0 (could you imagine a 5-6 Trump or Biden campaigning for President? 🤣). 60% of the CEOs of the Fortune 500 countries are over 6 ft. The Western action movie stars are all over 6 ft such as Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, James Colburn, etc. (could you imagine a 5-6 Clint Eastwood riding into town to fight the outlaws? 🤣). The Superhero action stars are over 6 ft such as Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, Chris Pratt, etc (could you imagine a 5-6 Thor, Aquaman or Superman trying to save the day? 🤣). Short men in these occupations wouldn't be taken seriously. Short men are better suited for comedy roles like the three stooges. Lol. Short men are looked upon for leadership & guidance.
And I'll admit I get hit on by overweight/obese women a lot (at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc). Just the other day, one of those really obese women with their belly hanging out all over their waist hit on me at the banana section of a grocery store (on my way home from the gym). She said I had a nice physique & asked me if I was married. She was probably pushing 250 (5-5) & had what appeared to be diabetic skin sores on her lower legs 😖. My 22 yr old son witnessed the incident from another section & laughed his butt off at his old man. Lol (I'm widowed). Because of social media elevating the perceived SMV of overweight/obese women - they go after less attractive, short men like me. They know they have no shot with the taller "Chads" but also know that ultra-short, less appealing guys like me struggle with attractive, fit, in-shape women. And it's funny that many of these obese women want nothing to do with other obese men, which they would have much more in common with.
So, as a bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast & health nut, I'm supposed to lower my standards & settle down with an obese woman? Please...don't you see a major conflict of interest there with eating & excercise habits & a completely different lifestyle? Lol.
Short and what you call yourself "less attractive" men writing long stories about how terrible they have it while crapping all over overweight or obese women, as if these women don't have their own challenges or reasons for being the way they are. Have fun being a crappy person.
LMAO at all these reason. The fact of the matter is nobody likes fat chicks and there's more of them than ever. There literally aren't enough 5/10 or above women around to make guys want to lose their virginities.
Why do think a 0-5 guy deserves a 5 or above woman? Talk about delusions.
Does anything you just wrote sound manly or masculine to you?
WTH?...pointing out facts about how short men aren't taken serious in society? Didn't you see all the evidence I submitted about the Presidents, the actors, the CEOs of the Fortune 500 companies, etc? Did you read the link I posted? You're obviously not a short man or you would understand. 😉
If you’re just pointing out facts, then I’m just asking a question.
And we’re the same height. Pretty sure I’ve told you that in previous threads. Maybe that’s what the wink is for idk how to feel about that one lol
You're darn right I have an inferiority complex about my height! You would too if you were a shorty like me. I don't think you have a clue what's it's like being an ultra-short man in the good old U.S. of A. I'm a tad under 5-6 & despite having a muscular, bodybuilding physique through decades of hard work weighing in at 175 (15% BF), I'm still not taken serious by most women (who would have thought. Lol).
Let me school you: Society favors tall men. Height represents leadership, intelligence & masculinity. The vast majority of the Presidents are all over 6 foot. Trump is 6-3 & Biden is 6-0 (could you imagine a 5-6 Trump or Biden campaigning for President? 🤣). 60% of the CEOs of the Fortune 500 countries are over 6 ft. The Western action movie stars are all over 6 ft such as Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, James Colburn, etc. (could you imagine a 5-6 Clint Eastwood riding into town to fight the outlaws? 🤣). The Superhero action stars are over 6 ft such as Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, Chris Pratt, etc (could you imagine a 5-6 Thor, Aquaman or Superman trying to save the day? 🤣). Short men in these occupations wouldn't be taken seriously. Short men are better suited for comedy roles like the three stooges. Lol. Short men are looked upon for leadership & guidance.
And I'll admit I get hit on by overweight/obese women a lot (at the gym, the grocery store, the bank, etc). Just the other day, one of those really obese women with their belly hanging out all over their waist hit on me at the banana section of a grocery store (on my way home from the gym). She said I had a nice physique & asked me if I was married. She was probably pushing 250 (5-5) & had what appeared to be diabetic skin sores on her lower legs 😖. My 22 yr old son witnessed the incident from another section & laughed his butt off at his old man. Lol (I'm widowed). Because of social media elevating the perceived SMV of overweight/obese women - they go after less attractive, short men like me. They know they have no shot with the taller "Chads" but also know that ultra-short, less appealing guys like me struggle with attractive, fit, in-shape women. And it's funny that many of these obese women want nothing to do with other obese men, which they would have much more in common with.
So, as a bodybuilder, fitness enthusiast & health nut, I'm supposed to lower my standards & settle down with an obese woman? Please...don't you see a major conflict of interest there with eating & excercise habits & a completely different lifestyle? Lol.
In my first week of med school, I met a ridiculously attractive and incredibly intelligent female classmate. A month into school, I found out that she'd started dating a male classmate who is all of 5'4". Fourth year, the two of them got married.
Sorry, but the whole "short guys can't get attention from women" sob story just doesn't seem like reality to me. Sure, you're probably at a disadvantage. But you can overcome that disadvantage by being more impressive in other areas.
Dude. Read any thread on women in this board and this shouldn't be a surprise. You have incells that use terms like "red pill" and "Chad" and make excuses for not being able to date let alone get laid.
It is super easy to get some. Go find a slump buster if you need to. The only virgins are people that deserve it because they have not shown any ability to connect.
The short guys are worst not because they are short, but because they have such inferiority complexes about it. Be confident, don't be a Napoleon, then you'll be fine. The average woman is 5'3" or 5"4"; if you're 5'6" or so, you shouldn't have an issue finding a woman.
Halo effect of being tall means all negative personality traits are ignored or seen as positives, and the reverse Halo effect of being short means all positive traits are ignored or seen as "try hard," "over compensating," "Napoleon complexes." It doesn't matter if women are on average shorter than these short men, because women's ideal height for men is their own plus 8 inches. That 5'3" girl wants a 5'11 guy, 5'4 wants at least 6'0, and so on.
Macron is 5'8. Zelenski and Putin are 5'7, although I doubt if Putin is really that tall. You can't change your height so work on what you can change. Your wealth, your success in life, your education. I've had several women tell me that for them intelligence is an elixir. Women want to have smart children.
