Yep. As a person who can generally understand both sides of an issues, it's hard not to feel like a crazy alien right now. I mean, am I even human because I think both sides have reasonable concerns? Even suggesting so gets you clobbered by both sides. Idk, therapists all say stuff like "you're not alone" and "other people have thought this way" so that you don't feel weird and isolated. Well, I feel isolated. How is the rest of the country so unable to have an on-topic fair argument without rampant logical fallacies? I honestly just don't understand anymore.
How many people read the Initial draft? It seems pretty reasonable that Roe v Wade should have never been passed to begin with. What good evidence is there that abortion is a constitutional right? Look, I lean pro-choice. I'm not God, I don't know when life begins (and God doesn't explicitly say either) so I don't think I could ever vote to ban abortions because of all the other factors to consider. But, that has absolutely nothing to do with whether the constitution says abortion is a right that the federal law is obligated to protect.
What's so ironic is the pro-choice side is complaining because the SCOTUS is giving the people and the States the choice. The SCOTUS is not outlawing abortion- they are simply saying (seemingly rightfully so) that they don't have the Constitutional authority to tell States how they can regulate abortion. This is pretty simple, but I've seen very little discussion across all platforms actually debating whether or not this is the right Constitutional decision. People just debate their person opinion. I understand people have emotions, but emotions aren't an excuse to be completely devoid of logic. 67 pages of reading the draft and the decision for this to not be a federal law seems at least fairly reasonable to me. Someone prove the current SCOTUS is 100% wrong. I'd love to read opposing arguments that actually address the Constitution (that wasn't sarcasm).
Plus, seemingly no one can even argue well about their personal feelings on abortion. What the heck is everyone even talking about anymore? How many dead horses can we exhaustingly beat? Pro-life people aren't trying to control women. They believe both lives should be protected, but the life of the baby should be protected over the very real, but less severe (when compared to death) consequences the woman may face. It's so simple to understand. And pro-choice people value life and value babies, but they don't believe (or don't know) a fetus at a particular stage is 'life'. If there were no downsides to continuing the pregnancies, they'd likely advocate the pregnancy to be continued. But there's a whole host of legitimate reasons why there are pros to ending a pregnancy (if you don't view it as life). This too, is incredibly simple to understand. But for some ridiculously stupid reason, we've all just decided to endlessly argue and invent reasons why the other side doesn't see things the way we do. Think for a second how insanely stupid it is to restrict women from having abortions solely for the purpose of having power over them. Read the initial draft. Every state had anti-abortions laws at some point. Many of them had them just before Roe. Most of the world, for 100s of years, has had anti-abortion laws. And you want me to believe all of these were universally about controlling women? That's just so dumb, I just can't get over it. Obviously, there's something more to it. Maybe people wanted to protect life? You have to go with the most logical solution.
But still, again, I personally lean pro-choice. I'm not convinced of when life begins. (But at the same, it's honestly a slippery slope to think about life... like why are 1 week old babies considered independent life- they have no form of higher-level thinking or self-awareness and can't survive on their own, and I honestly can't think of a cognitive- functioning difference between a 1 week old and a 22 week old fetus... but of course the thought of someone killing a 1 week old enrages me like very few other things.. but I can't even explain why it's actually a life simply because its not in a uterus. (I've thought about this a lot)). So I therefore understand why it makes sense to believe a fetus in the womb should be treated the same as a one-week old baby. Sometimes I actually feel it's logically inconsistent for me to not view a fetus the same as a 1 week old. If I'm honest, I kind of just rely on a vague gut-feeling that they're different somehow... because I can hold/touch a baby not in a uterus I guess.. But since I don't really know, I'll allow people to have an abortion, even though I wouldn't have one personally. But the vilification of pro-life people is really weird to me.
Although, I also understand that if a fetus isn't actually life, then it's dumb to restrict women from having abortions. For all the reasons people commonly recite: besides just the chance of death, pregnancy is hard on the body, raising a child is hard- financially, emotionally and logistically. Having a child you don't really want, that's unplanned, and when you have little support, is a recipe for disaster. Then sometimes fetuses sometimes don't develop properly, etc.. So I understand why people say Pro-lifers are restricting women's rights. If a fetus isn't a life, then they essentially are. In fact, I think it's fair to say "Hey, I know you believe this fetus is a life, and as much as I respect your passion to protect life, I and many others, believe this fetus likely isn't a life yet... and your view is ultimately causing unnecessary distress to women. I know you won't ever believe murder is okay, but I just want to make sure you're aware of the realities that there are significant negative consequences to restricting abortions. I can't just sit by and let these women endure this distress simply because you have a viewpoint the majority of people disagree with. So I just want to understand why you are really, really convinced that a fetus is in fact life and your reasons for believing so".
Side note: Ultimately, this is a big enough issue that each state should have a public vote about their abortion laws. I don't get why we don't? (We kind of do through elected officials, but that's not the same in my opinion.. let's just all straight up vote like a Prop)
Anyways, I'm pretty depressed. It seems we will never have effective discussions anymore. There's pretty much no chance society will ever improve anymore with people at each other's throat incapable of understanding each other and twisting their arguments to make them seem evil or stupid. I'm not really sure where to go from here. Like what am I supposed to do in life? How do I make a difference? Growing up, I kind of thought being able to understand almost everyone was a good thing, and maybe I could do something with that. I mean it sounds good, but honestly it's not. I just piss everyone off because I'm not on their team. Then if I just stay out of it, I'm actually just as bad because "I'm apathetic and passively letting the injustice continue". Whatever, I'll be fine. We'll all figure it out. Anyways, if you read this, thanks for the free therapy.