Great stories everyone. They feel cinematic/novelesque. So many remarkable events and tragedies in their lives.
I like to think of my family as classic...Of my four grandparents, 3 were born in the US (although one with immigrant parents) and 1 in Europe. We all have thrived in this nation and lived the dream.
My mom's side quickly left the East Coast when they arrived in the early 20c, went to the Midwest and seems to have thrived in small businesses. They joined country clubs and were comfortable.
My dad's side struggled more, and moved around trying to make a living after landing in the early 20c. The Detroit grocery store was the main thing, but there were other tries and fails in other cities.
The family story is that my father's father was a brilliant man but was born in Europe and had mediocre English, and never quite found a career matching his brains. Being of prime working age during the depression no doubt hurt him.
Except: He believed in investing. He bought stocks back in the 40s and 50s and onwards, so despite never making much money at work, he died a millionaire in the 1980s. Which made an impression on me, and I'm sure made me a believer in investing. He bought some Intel shares for me in the 1980s...made money on them but wish I had held them through to the 90s.
My father was the first in the family to go to college, and he became a lawyer.
But the core of the family wealth, whatever there was, came from good investments made by my poor depression-bit grandfather.
And the fact we've not had even a single divorce in the family in at least 3 generations. That helps keep a family's finances together.
Another family story is that my father's mother was apparently a glamourous and active lefty during the depression but that's a story for another time.