Thank you very much wrote:
Tammy do you not realize that by using your own name you can also be opened up to defamation law suits?
More importantly, your husband should never have bragged to people about your secondary instagram account (what was it - Tjtrailrunner??) which you used to leave hate comments on the men's instagram posts, whilst he was still the coach of the team.
If you want to know who put the nail in his coffin, walk over to a mirror.
Can we please stop spamming about defamation lawsuits. It's very hard to succeed with such a claim in the USA. You either have to have real, provable damages (which... good luck!), or the statements must meet the standard of defamation per se:
Defamation Per Se and Untrue Statements
Traditionally, there have been four general categories of untrue statements presumed to be harmful to one's reputation and therefore actionable as an injury claim. Typically, if the statements don't fall into one of these categories, the plaintiff is required to prove their damages. If it does fall into one of these categories, damages are usually presumed.
The four general categories are:
Indications that a person was involved in criminal activity
Indications that a person had a "loathsome," contagious or infectious disease
Indications that a person was unchaste or engaged in sexual misconduct
Indications that a person was involved in behavior incompatible with the proper conduct of his business, trade or profession
Speculation about behavior on a message board or discussions of rumors - that reasonable people understand are opinion or speculation would never be upheld as defamation.