otter wrote:
pityparty wrote:
1. Lots of kids have near perfect scores on their SATS especially if you are applying to an IVY - not impressed.
2. 3rd in her class. How big was her class? 3rd of 28. How good is her school. Round the way public school Not impressed without context.
3. Compete in a sport. Lots of kids compete in a sport. Was she one of the best in the state? Context or not impressed.
4. 3 writing contests. This might be impressive, but would need details to say.
5. Applied ED. So do a lot of very strong candidates including lots of types who do not need FA.
In conclusion, though you imagine your kid did not get in because she was white, that's just your hypothesis. Maybe her recs were generic. Maybe her essay was poorly written. Maybe she did not make the most of the many advantages given to her in life. Who knows? Sorry she did not get in, but hope she does not go through life thinking it was because she was white.
Two kids from the same school with weaker credentials got in. Affirmative action is WELL documented. Let’s start there. Find a new argument
Weaker credentials according to whom? Maybe they were actually good at the sports they did. Like really good. Maybe they were better writers. Maybe their teachers and college counselors found them to be among the finest students they had ever had the pleasure of working with. You have no way of knowing since you never saw their completed aps. All you know is what you saw from a distance and what your daughter may have told you. Maybe the kids didn't have huge chips on their shoulders and feel like they were entitled to go to an Ivy league university. Not everyone can. Or maybe the other kids had rich parents who bought a house for a coach or who paid someone to forge their application. That stuff happens a heck of a lot more than people on this thread care to admit. Much easier to blame it on the handful of black and brown kids than to admit your own shortcomings. Again, I hope your kid doesn't let not getting in define her and make her as jaded as you seem to be.