33 year old female teacher has sex with 13 year old student

tihrtuihrjgnjr wrote:

Not necessarily, women are strong in some cases, stronger than a teenage boy. The boy would still have to get wood though.

This is like the loaded gun argument. Yes-- there is some small portion of the male population that is physically weaker than some small portion of the female population.

You could also get hit by a bus, but the probability is so small that you don't get emotionally would up about it...

B.l.S.P. wrote:

You're a moron if you think that most 13 year old boys aren't producing sperm and couldn't impregnate a woman of fertile age.

I meant that it was not possible for the boy to get pregnant.

A 13 year old girl who gets preggers by her teacher is basically done for life. A 13 year old boy who gets his teacher pregnant-- well, he's still got his life in front of him...

Either way, the teacher was in a position of trust and violated that because she probably can't get a date with men her own age. If she can get dates with guys her own age and still went for a young teenager then she's messed up in the head, regardless of how happy it made that teenager.

Look-- I'm not saying that it is not illegal or that the teacher is not damaged-- I'm just saying that we respond to it differently for good reasons. I don't think that I was even capable of being emotionally damaged until my mid 20's, much less physically by a woman.

Correct, it is not ok for a 33 year old to have sex with a 13 year old but it is ok for a 13 year old to have sex with a 33 year old.

I would have jumped at that when I was 13 (no lun intended). But as an adult the reverse repulses me. YUK to her.

4runner wrote:

Look-- I'm not saying that it is not illegal or that the teacher is not damaged-- I'm just saying that we respond to it differently for good reasons. I don't think that I was even capable of being emotionally damaged until my mid 20's, much less physically by a woman.

Yes!

There is a middle ground between misogynist double standards and the fiction that men and women are exactly the same.

Yeah, just look at how that kid that Mary Kay Letourneau had kids with turned out, he's a real champ!

You weren't self-aware enough at that age to know how it would've turned out. You may not even be self-aware enough now!

Yeah, why wasn’t I sexually abused?

My friend was proud of being molested by his teenage Swedish babysitter when he was 9-11 years old. "Breastfeeding" etc. It sounded so much like a Penthouse story that he had to get his sister to back him up that it was true. The way he told it, he was a champ for pulling it off.