OK, DJ, I am sorry if I took my sarcasm a bit too far. And, really, although I named you, my issue isn't really with you. You seem somewhat reasonable.
While I acknowledge that my comparisons have been annoying, they are not ridiculous. They do show the unbelievable hypocrisy with which some of you are approaching this subject. Yes, millions speed (myself included), it is against the law, and we turn a bind eye to it. I am looking for someone to say, "Yes, just as we should not bandit, we should not speed either."
I am not an advocate of banditing, I assure you. But, what we are talking about here is an activity that is not as black and white as many of you guys make it out to be. You yourself are making a distinction between a "full race bandit" vs. a "non-full race bandit". There are maybe a few times that I've witnessed someone banditing excessively (ie crossing the line and screwing things up, or eating the food, etc.), but there have been many times that I really don't see what issue you could have in the way it is done many times, and I see it as extremely trivial when we are talking about the "wrongs" that people do. My beef with this thread isn't so much about people thinking that it is wrong, it is with how much conviction and how big of deal they are making out of this nothing.
If a husband wants to pace his wife for her marathon, but not pay the $100, I don't really care, and if she is not competitive, then I don't see how it hurts anyone. If a little boy chases his Dad to the finish, I see this as a beautiful family moment... to believe this boy is heinous for his banditing? Please, c'mon? If a HSer is looking for a workout, but does not have the ludicrous 25$ that many races look for that is used to buy stuff (that he does not care about anyway), I could care less if he runs with me in the race and passes me as we near the end. If some daughter did not make the registration because her mom was late in getting her there, I think she should "race" anyway. I say these things having been the race director for several races and having raced in many more.
I guess I see races differently than most of you. I primarily see races as a gathering of people to get together and have a run.. some competing harder than others. I see them as a $$ making venture, secondarily.
As for the issue, I don't see an issue with pacing someone for the last 6 miles of a marathon. However, both people need to be aware of the rules and be willing to swallow the consequences if called out. If someone is vying for the win, let's say, or trying to qualify for the OT, they need to be able to admit what they did, should their effort be nullified. The same goes for people who take food/liquid from non-volunteers on the course. Most of the time, this isn't an issue (as no one would care), but it is against the rules and considered an unfair advantage, and you could keep you from winning/qualifying should someone take issue with it.