Old guy radio - totally get it about the weight gain. Thankfully, we aren't in lock down and you can cross train. The amount of calories to lose weight as a 60+ female is so low that it would, IMO, trigger a "starvation" calorie hoarding reaction. But if you can exercise at all, you can lose the weight. The weight started to come off when I could move and I could eat a bit more when I exercised.
My advice - MOVE every day that you would normally run. Do whatever doesn't hurt your knee. Pool running will not make you into a lean, mean running machine, but it will burn some calories, use some muscles and honestly, make you feel/sleep better. (I once aqua-jogged 1 hour every day for 10 weeks - totally sucked, but I didn't lose as much fitness as I did when i couldn't do it).
See a PT and have him/her proscribe exercises to strengthen the muscles supporting your knee (hip, core, ankle, calf). Likely there is some connection between body weaknesses and knee pain.
Go to the gym and work on everything else that doesn't hurt. Upper body, core, etc. You could do side planks, fire hydrants, hip raises, clam shells, dead bug, etc at home. Your PT can guide you, or a personal trainer - these will all make you a better runner when your knee is better. You'll also feel better about yourself when you can see that you are getting stronger.
I started following a dynamic stretching program (an app) last year. I don't know how much it is helping my recovery, however, it's been pleasant and I feel more flexible. YMMV. I've also been doing exercises from Pete Egoscue's book Painfree. Again, don't know how useful, but hasn't hurt.
I miss the days of just running (though I always ran better when I lifted twice a week), but I'm willing to do almost anything to get to where I'm running well again. (I did 7 miles twice in the last week!!).
Good luck!