Just as I would never dine alone with a woman other than my wife lest we be overcome with illicit passion, so I would never run with another woman. I know how powerfully attractive I am, and a woman's thoughts would inevitably stray from our meal or 400m repeats, and in a moment of weakness I might accommodate her carnal desires.
Speed goggles are real. If you are a good male runner, and even slightly attractive the women will throw it at you. Women want to be with the best in whatever it is that they find of value. If they are religious they want to bang the preacher, in school the teacher/professor, at work the guy in charge, in athletics... it's the top performer.
There is only so much temptation a guy can take, eventually you will give in. Maybe you enjoy the ego stroke from having another woman indicate that you still "have it." maybe it's when you've had a few beers and you let your guard down, maybe you're just horned up and the wife is away or whatever.. you break down.
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Had it happen, seen it happen too many times.. this $hit aint new to the running scene.
Just as I would never dine alone with a woman other than my wife lest we be overcome with illicit passion, so I would never run with another woman. I know how powerfully attractive I am, and a woman's thoughts would inevitably stray from our meal or 400m repeats, and in a moment of weakness I might accommodate her carnal desires.
I used to work with a guy who was trying to lose weight (and succeeded, pretty much) and began running after work with a tiny and cute fresh off the boat Asian co-worker. Then I met his very white American wife and I was like omg what is going on? The wife was large and unattractive by most standards. She was incredibly nice though. I was just so mystified as to what was going on.
I left the company after I met the wife but wonder what happened. I asked my girlfriends if their hubbies would be allowed to do the same thing, and they were like absolutely not! I definitely wouldn't allow it.
Wrong. It is Christianity that is right about women.
All religions are stupid. God is no different than Santa Claus. Have an ethos, have a social group…but why on earth people in 2024 believe in spirits, gods, beings, or deities I cannot fathom.
Humans are naturally a gullible species. We seen that exemplified during peak covid and big pharma/the institution took advantage accordingly.
Just as I would never dine alone with a woman other than my wife lest we be overcome with illicit passion, so I would never run with another woman. I know how powerfully attractive I am, and a woman's thoughts would inevitably stray from our meal or 400m repeats, and in a moment of weakness I might accommodate her carnal desires.
Sounds like in a moment of weakness you might also accommodate your caccal desires by munching into her caccacoochie.
Wrong. It is Christianity that is right about women.
All religions are stupid. God is no different than Santa Claus. Have an ethos, have a social group…but why on earth people in 2024 believe in spirits, gods, beings, or deities I cannot fathom.
So where did the Big Bang come from?
Yes I admit you could say - where did God come from but my point is we don't have all of the answers. It's actually the opposite of what you say. It's stupid to not wonder where it all began as it makes perfect sense. Mr. genius, where did the first cell come from?
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open marriage & transparent about everything...anything else as
Men & Women both cheat on their mates; monogamous relationships rarely occur in the real world.
Buddy....gonna blow your mind here, but what if I told you nonmonogamy doesn't have to be cheating!
This is becoming more and more common. Monogamy developed around the time that agriculture developed and stable societies developed; knowing parentage became important for inheritance reasons. But we have birth control and DNA testing now, so as long as everything is above table it doesn’t really matter.
Is there something you'd like to share with the group?
Had it happen, seen it happen too many times.. this $hit aint new to the running scene.
I'm trying to phrase this in the proper way without being gross and obtuse.
I also think running, in certain environments, can be overtly sexual. You spend hours running together. Talking. Laughing. Work up a sweat. Layers of clothes come off. You finish the run and by the end you're stretching together wearing nothing but socks and shorts, and your friend is sitting there in a sports bra and spandex.
Not trying to sexualize any party in this, but it's about the least shocking thing in the world that these running group relationships can quickly turn into something physical.
All religions are stupid. God is no different than Santa Claus. Have an ethos, have a social group…but why on earth people in 2024 believe in spirits, gods, beings, or deities I cannot fathom.
So where did the Big Bang come from?
Yes I admit you could say - where did God come from but my poitn is we don't have all of the answers. It's actually the opposite of what you say. It's stupid to not wonder where it all began as it makes perfect sense. Mr. genius, where did the first cell come from?
As someone who's life started from a big bang, I agree with you.
If an activity has a high likelihood of leading to infidelity and you have willingly made a fidelity vow to one person / or several where children are involved, then YES, a moral and ethical person should not engage in that activity.
Its no different from say going clubbing without your spouse because you like dancing and expecting your spouse to be okay with this.
If that running together leads to more than just running together there are problems in the relationship.
The same question could be asked about people of the opposite sex working together or being in any situation where people of the opposite sex come together.
This is the correct answer
Agreed, but I also think it's fair to discuss boundaries and stuff. Think it's very easy for both sides to put themselves in a situation they would typically avoid for the sake of "exercise".
For example, I would never start carpooling to work everyday with my cute coworker. Does it mean I'm cheating or worried about being tempted? No of course not. But just a situation I don't think I should put myself in. Now if I joined a running group and the cute runner started asking for a lift home, I could 100% see myself being naive and treating it different because "running together" somehow feels different than "working together". Idk maybe a bad example but it makes sense in my head.
Same thing goes for grabbing meals. I would never go to dinner after work one-on-one with my cute coworker. But would I quickly grab chipotle with an attractive runner after we finished a long run? Maybe?
But yeah, if my wife wanted to join a running group I would have no oppositions. She can do what she wants. She can wear whatever she wants. She can run with whoever she wants. But as her husband, it's also okay if I ask questions and let her know if something is making me nervous/uncomfortable.
All religions are stupid. God is no different than Santa Claus. Have an ethos, have a social group…but why on earth people in 2024 believe in spirits, gods, beings, or deities I cannot fathom.
So where did the Big Bang come from?
Yes I admit you could say - where did God come from but my poitn is we don't have all of the answers. It's actually the opposite of what you say. It's stupid to not wonder where it all began as it makes perfect sense. Mr. genius, where did the first cell come from?
It actually all came from cacca. Cacca is the original cause and creator. Can the cacca theory make useful predictions? Well, can God? No, so how is god different from cacca?
Had it happen, seen it happen too many times.. this $hit aint new to the running scene.
I'm trying to phrase this in the proper way without being gross and obtuse.
I also think running, in certain environments, can be overtly sexual. You spend hours running together. Talking. Laughing. Work up a sweat. Layers of clothes come off. You finish the run and by the end you're stretching together wearing nothing but socks and shorts, and your friend is sitting there in a sports bra and spandex.
Not trying to sexualize any party in this, but it's about the least shocking thing in the world that these running group relationships can quickly turn into something physical.
And at it's very simplest terms, you are two people with a shared passion for something. When you see someone working so hard at something, striving for goals, etc.. you become emotionally invested in them it can very intimate.
All religions are stupid. God is no different than Santa Claus. Have an ethos, have a social group…but why on earth people in 2024 believe in spirits, gods, beings, or deities I cannot fathom.
So where did the Big Bang come from?
Yes I admit you could say - where did God come from but my poitn is we don't have all of the answers. It's actually the opposite of what you say. It's stupid to not wonder where it all began as it makes perfect sense. Mr. genius, where did the first cell come from?
If you hadn't been asleep during physics class you would know that there was no such as before big bang. Time, space and matter was created at big bang. As for the first cell, you need to read up on evolutionary theory, mr. Creationist.
Yes I admit you could say - where did God come from but my poitn is we don't have all of the answers. It's actually the opposite of what you say. It's stupid to not wonder where it all began as it makes perfect sense. Mr. genius, where did the first cell come from?
If you hadn't been asleep during physics class you would know that there was no such as before big bang. Time, space and matter was created at big bang. As for the first cell, you need to read up on evolutionary theory, mr. Creationist.
Oh so something comes from nothing. Thanks that clears it up.
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