Powerful men and powerful woman have a dance that gets messy when one starts to have bad feelings. Both parties are adults and both parties get a dopamine rush in pushing the limits of a platonic relationship. Once a boyfriend or spouse gets wind of it, the dopamine surge decrease and panic sets in. That's when either consenting adults start to form the narrative of what "actually happened" despite the push and pull of two emotionally needy individuals. I believe that each starts to believe their own narrative as truth so that they may save their marriages or job. This happens in the work place, schools, hospitals, law firms etc.... It is inherently based on 2 people who in the outside project strength, sexuality and power but on the inside are looking for something to fill an empty void that is not met by their current partner. their partner could be perfect, but sometimes these individuals seek so much attention they become addicted to the rush of being just a little bit inappropriate.
Grown women and men know exactly what rape and molestation is. There really isn't too much of a gray zone that can be miscalculated for years. Therapy years later often reveals thoughts of victimhood that didn't really exist in the powerful cat and mouse dance.