Society's become too easy to live in, which has allowed for both physically and mentally weaker human specimens to survive. Traditional (aka, how human beings organized themselves for millions of years until 60ish years ago) roles and modes of being have been subverted, hierarchies have been inverted so that the weak are now considered strong and the strong are considered weak. Notice how many believe that men who lift weights and do traditionally masculine activities are now commonly considered "insecure?" This couldn't occur under normal natural selection pressures.
Really good points.
I mean, they would be really good points if they were not all wrong.
Both men and women are lost. Women are trying to be like men, men trying to be more like women. It's a mess, and it seems as a whole neither side is satisfied with the current dating pools.
last 30years, girls have been taughted that they should be brave, strong, independant, make a good living, be ambitious. On the other side, boys were told it's all right to cry like a baby and share their emotions, with some mothers forcing them to eat soy and takings supplement from tropical berries extract to get their vitamins. Add the porn that disturbs hormonal functions for both gender and all the screens and wireless technologies that disturbs the brain and nervous system and you get what we have today. Almost everybody is lost. What a mess.
The amount of brainwashing someone would have to succumb to in order to believe this is reflective of society is just hilarious.
last 30years, girls have been taughted that they should be brave, strong, independant, make a good living, be ambitious. On the other side, boys were told it's all right to cry like a baby and share their emotions, with some mothers forcing them to eat soy and takings supplement from tropical berries extract to get their vitamins. Add the porn that disturbs hormonal functions for both gender and all the screens and wireless technologies that disturbs the brain and nervous system and you get what we have today. Almost everybody is lost. What a mess.
The amount of brainwashing someone would have to succumb to in order to believe this is reflective of society is just hilarious.
The problem is shoes. That's where it all started and that's where it starts. Disconnection from our environment, from our bodies, and from reality.
It's started before that I believe with agriculture and primitive technologies.
Agriculture means we have to work to eat instead of just enjoying what is available like every other species.
The need for technology relies on the illusion that we are not made with the full package necessary to live which is obviously wrong but now the habits are so strongly rooted in our lives since milleniums/centuries/decades/years depending on the tech, that we cannot do without anymore.
Nonsense!
It started when we came out of the puddles. Before then, every waking moment (and every moment was a waking moment) was filled with sheer terror that we might be devoured by one of these:
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last 30years, girls have been taughted that they should be brave, strong, independant, make a good living, be ambitious. On the other side, boys were told it's all right to cry like a baby and share their emotions, with some mothers forcing them to eat soy and takings supplement from tropical berries extract to get their vitamins. Add the porn that disturbs hormonal functions for both gender and all the screens and wireless technologies that disturbs the brain and nervous system and you get what we have today. Almost everybody is lost. What a mess.
The amount of brainwashing someone would have to succumb to in order to believe this is reflective of society is just hilarious.
It absolutely reflects society on the girls side. The boys side is caricatural but still partly true. Also an unprecedented number of lonely mother with boys without a father as an example, results in "good boys".
The amount of brainwashing someone would have to succumb to in order to believe this is reflective of society is just hilarious.
It absolutely reflects society on the girls side. The boys side is caricatural but still partly true. Also an unprecedented number of lonely mother with boys without a father as an example, results in "good boys".
Both men and women are lost. Women are trying to be like men, men trying to be more like women. It's a mess, and it seems as a whole neither side is satisfied with the current dating pools.
I wish someone told me that career/financial success was actually a turn off to men. Every man *thinks* he likes a successful woman, but they don't like the traits that inevitably go with it: working late, tired sometimes, can't just take vacations with him whenever he feels like it, difficult to find time to do things like have perfect hair and nails and clothes.
I thought I was lucky to have a good career and a hot runner body. Men like the hot runner body part. They like the career stuff at first, especially successful men, who see you as a relatable human - the sort they might be friends with. And I'm not some boss b*tch, I'm a really nice person.
But as time goes on they realize it's not what they want in a girlfriend or wife. They want someone who can be there for them and their needs. They eventually friend zone me and find some sweet dumb girl who flatters their ego until they get a ring then they stop putting out.
I'd give up all my success to have a nice boyfriend/husband. I don't think it's ever going to happen. Men suck.
Both men and women are lost. Women are trying to be like men, men trying to be more like women. It's a mess, and it seems as a whole neither side is satisfied with the current dating pools.
I wish someone told me that career/financial success was actually a turn off to men. Every man *thinks* he likes a successful woman, but they don't like the traits that inevitably go with it: working late, tired sometimes, can't just take vacations with him whenever he feels like it, difficult to find time to do things like have perfect hair and nails and clothes.
I thought I was lucky to have a good career and a hot runner body. Men like the hot runner body part. They like the career stuff at first, especially successful men, who see you as a relatable human - the sort they might be friends with. And I'm not some boss b*tch, I'm a really nice person.
But as time goes on they realize it's not what they want in a girlfriend or wife. They want someone who can be there for them and their needs. They eventually friend zone me and findsome sweet dumb girl who flatters their ego until they get a ring then they stop putting out.
I'd give up all my success to have a nice boyfriend/husband. I don't think it's ever going to happen. Men suck.
Both men and women are lost. Women are trying to be like men, men trying to be more like women. It's a mess, and it seems as a whole neither side is satisfied with the current dating pools.
I wish someone told me that career/financial success was actually a turn off to men. Every man *thinks* he likes a successful woman, but they don't like the traits that inevitably go with it: working late, tired sometimes, can't just take vacations with him whenever he feels like it, difficult to find time to do things like have perfect hair and nails and clothes.
I thought I was lucky to have a good career and a hot runner body. Men like the hot runner body part. They like the career stuff at first, especially successful men, who see you as a relatable human - the sort they might be friends with. And I'm not some boss b*tch, I'm a really nice person.
But as time goes on they realize it's not what they want in a girlfriend or wife. They want someone who can be there for them and their needs. They eventually friend zone me and find some sweet dumb girl who flatters their ego until they get a ring then they stop putting out.
I'd give up all my success to have a nice boyfriend/husband. I don't think it's ever going to happen. Men suck.
Women dont like me as a successful man either. They're just blind. In fact, no one cares about me at all. From the societal lens, I am just another face in the crowd here on this earth. Almost invisible.
I am in my 30s and essentially live a dream lifestyle. I am self made, empathetic, polite, caring and I go out of my way to do a lot for others in the community. I am not god's gift to women but I am content with how I look and feel. I am not unattractive. I love to run and swim. Blue eyes, dark hair, tan skin, fit and a ~200k salary (a lot where I am from). I dont wear my salary on my sleeve but I outearn most everyone in the locale.
The women here give me glances, passively flirt but none of them actually step up even though I show interest. Ive had a few gals over the past three months approach me for one night stands or hookups and I simply cant bring myself to do that. I wont just give myself away Sometimes the gals I form crushes on end up with total losers and it's sad to see. It makes me think "WTF".
I am upset to be alone and upset because I am lonely.
Both men and women are lost. Women are trying to be like men, men trying to be more like women. It's a mess, and it seems as a whole neither side is satisfied with the current dating pools.
I wish someone told me that career/financial success was actually a turn off to men. Every man *thinks* he likes a successful woman, but they don't like the traits that inevitably go with it: working late, tired sometimes, can't just take vacations with him whenever he feels like it, difficult to find time to do things like have perfect hair and nails and clothes.
I thought I was lucky to have a good career and a hot runner body. Men like the hot runner body part. They like the career stuff at first, especially successful men, who see you as a relatable human - the sort they might be friends with. And I'm not some boss b*tch, I'm a really nice person.
But as time goes on they realize it's not what they want in a girlfriend or wife. They want someone who can be there for them and their needs. They eventually friend zone me and find some sweet dumb girl who flatters their ego until they get a ring then they stop putting out.
I'd give up all my success to have a nice boyfriend/husband. I don't think it's ever going to happen. Men suck.
You blame men for the consequences of your own actions... Hmm maybe it's not the men who suck. It's not men's fault they're not attracted to you or don't see a future with you anymore than it's women's fault for not being attracted to the shy, nerdy guys. You independent boss b1tch femcels and the incels are on two sides of the same coin.
I wish someone told me that career/financial success was actually a turn off to men. Every man *thinks* he likes a successful woman, but they don't like the traits that inevitably go with it: working late, tired sometimes, can't just take vacations with him whenever he feels like it, difficult to find time to do things like have perfect hair and nails and clothes.
I thought I was lucky to have a good career and a hot runner body. Men like the hot runner body part. They like the career stuff at first, especially successful men, who see you as a relatable human - the sort they might be friends with. And I'm not some boss b*tch, I'm a really nice person.
But as time goes on they realize it's not what they want in a girlfriend or wife. They want someone who can be there for them and their needs. They eventually friend zone me and find some sweet dumb girl who flatters their ego until they get a ring then they stop putting out.
I'd give up all my success to have a nice boyfriend/husband. I don't think it's ever going to happen. Men suck.
Women dont like me as a successful man either. They're just blind. In fact, no one cares about me at all. From the societal lens, I am just another face in the crowd here on this earth. Almost invisible.
I am in my 30s and essentially live a dream lifestyle. I am self made, empathetic, polite, caring and I go out of my way to do a lot for others in the community. I am not god's gift to women but I am content with how I look and feel. I am not unattractive. I love to run and swim. Blue eyes, dark hair, tan skin, fit and a ~200k salary (a lot where I am from). I dont wear my salary on my sleeve but I outearn most everyone in the locale.
The women here give me glances, passively flirt but none of them actually step up even though I show interest. Ive had a few gals over the past three months approach me for one night stands or hookups and I simply cant bring myself to do that. I wont just give myself away Sometimes the gals I form crushes on end up with total losers and it's sad to see. It makes me think "WTF".
I am upset to be alone and upset because I am lonely.
You must be aggressive and approach women. Women like men to make the first move, no matter what they may say.
There are morbidly obese women on dating sites with multiple kids looking for partners.
Are they lost?
Yes
No. They are actually pretty normal.
Most non-nubile women are fat and kid-laden in modern primitive cultures, and they were in prehistory too. Fat was even considered attractive at times in Europe, if the Venus figurines and some periods of art history are any guide.
Once a woman has schlopped out two or three brats, evolution is more interested in her raising those brats than looking pretty and making more.
Women dont like me as a successful man either. They're just blind. In fact, no one cares about me at all. From the societal lens, I am just another face in the crowd here on this earth. Almost invisible.
I am in my 30s and essentially live a dream lifestyle. I am self made, empathetic, polite, caring and I go out of my way to do a lot for others in the community. I am not god's gift to women but I am content with how I look and feel. I am not unattractive. I love to run and swim. Blue eyes, dark hair, tan skin, fit and a ~200k salary (a lot where I am from). I dont wear my salary on my sleeve but I outearn most everyone in the locale.
The women here give me glances, passively flirt but none of them actually step up even though I show interest. Ive had a few gals over the past three months approach me for one night stands or hookups and I simply cant bring myself to do that. I wont just give myself away Sometimes the gals I form crushes on end up with total losers and it's sad to see. It makes me think "WTF".
I am upset to be alone and upset because I am lonely.
You must be aggressive and approach women. Women like men to make the first move, no matter what they may say.
If you meet their looks threshold. If not, they don't like being approached by unattractive guys.
I personally pay attention to choosing signals from a female. Once I'm aware of that, I'll move in.
Cold approach from unattractive guys, less desirable guys, low-value men, etc, can have devastating consequences & really anger some of these women in this modern day dating atmosphere.
I'm all for amendments, and volunteerism is a good thing and worthy of being added to the list (though if I thought about it a bit more, I MIGHT decide it doesn't belong), BUT your "Spirituality/Faith" nonsense doesn't belong at all. Moral compass is fine, but that does not require religion in an way shape or fashion. There is nothing manly about believing in fictional nonsense.
It depends what is meant by "spirituality". It doesn't require that one be religious but are not merely materialistic. It can equate with the love of the arts, of friendship and a sense of community, and care for the natural world around us because it is based on a bigger picture than the self.
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