Off topic, somewhat. But what is it with newly separated or divorced dads and constant social media use (Facebook/IG)? I’ve got two guys in my social circle who, when married, posted absolutely nothing. Once separated, every visit to the ice cream stand with their kids, every run, every zoo visit, every trip out for dinner, and every random thought is shared and posted to Facebook.
For me it was when I was no longer her confidant and she really wasn't talking about her activities while away from me. But my ex was a cheater and the sign may be different for others. But my suspicions was correct. She was also very good at deception. Years after the divorce she still wouldn't admit to cheating. I knew she was unfaithful and I just wanted out. I still remain her friend though but I know better than to expect anything more than a friendship from her.
Why are you friends with a deceitful, lying person? I couldn’t wait to rid myself of some of my exes because I couldn’t stand being around them. Others I’m just connected with via social media but there is no correspondence.
Yeah, it's a made up story. The husband would still have to sign the return. Did he not notice that his wife's income and info was not included? Did he never even look at the returns to see how much was owed/being refunded? Anyone that naive deserves to be taken to the cleaners.
Off topic, somewhat. But what is it with newly separated or divorced dads and constant social media use (Facebook/IG)? I’ve got two guys in my social circle who, when married, posted absolutely nothing. Once separated, every visit to the ice cream stand with their kids, every run, every zoo visit, every trip out for dinner, and every random thought is shared and posted to Facebook.
This is a tactic that is advised by Suvir e lawyers to make sure the husband has a record of being a great, attentive father so the mom can’t try and take away the kids in an inevitable custody battle.
Off topic, somewhat. But what is it with newly separated or divorced dads and constant social media use (Facebook/IG)? I’ve got two guys in my social circle who, when married, posted absolutely nothing. Once separated, every visit to the ice cream stand with their kids, every run, every zoo visit, every trip out for dinner, and every random thought is shared and posted to Facebook.
This is a tactic that is advised by Suvir e lawyers to make sure the husband has a record of being a great, attentive father so the mom can’t try and take away the kids in an inevitable custody battle.
Yeah, it's a made up story. The husband would still have to sign the return. Did he not notice that his wife's income and info was not included? Did he never even look at the returns to see how much was owed/being refunded? Anyone that naive deserves to be taken to the cleaners.
People are incapable of taking a balanced view. “Men are piles of garbage.” Gimme a break. Women think they would be better off without their husbands…because he doesn’t do enough around the house? What a stupid reason to destroy a marriage, and separate a man from his children.
It would be the same as a man divorcing his wife because she gets overweight. It’s just selfish and stupid to break up a family over something like that. We all have flaws. Learning to live with each other’s flaws is part of being an adult, and having a successful marriage.
Such a balanced view you've shared. I guess you don't have experience doing the lion's share of the physical and emotional labor around the house, day in and day out for years. Otherwise you would understand why a woman (or man) would think they were better off without the dead weight around.
She had 4 doctors prescribing Oxycontin and Fentanyl. If you watch the Hulu series “Dopesick” you’ll see how this destroyed mine and many other’s families. I was granted custody of all 4 kids in the divorce and I very happily started a new life free of that awfulness. For the general audience, and in direct answer to you query, obviously, substance abuse is a warning sign.
First sign that a divorce MAY be on the way is getting married. Divorce can't happen without it.
I'd say you are 100% safe, Jamin.
This is one of the sicker letsrun burns I have seen in quite a while. Thank you for that! Jamin haters may be haters, but at least they are funny haters ;)
The first red flag was when all of my friends told me that strippers who party all the time and sleep with a dozen+ guys/week are never going to change. I was like "watch this, I can tame her". They were impressed for awhile, but they were ultimately correct in their initial guesstimates of my odds.
A lot of women settle for a guy they’re not really attracted to. At the start, the fact that it allows them to conform with social convention and affords them some security is enough, but nothing replaces raw, primal attraction. There are a lot of 30 year old women out there marrying guys they wouldn’t have looked twice at 7 years prior, and the ‘love’ in those situations isn’t sustainable. There’s an imbalance from the off, and it’ll eventually manifest as contempt.
When, after years of her letting herself go and not caring so much about how she looked, she decides to lose some weight and start dressing sexier.......and you still ain't getting nothin'. She's at the very least thinking about cheating, if she isn't doing your neighbor already.
The greatest enemy to your marriage is your wife's girlfriends. Keep an eye on her new found girlfriend who all of a sudden wants to take her out for a girl's only night out. Next it will be girl's only vacation. She knows everything about your marriage and about you.She doesn't like you very much even though she smiles at you at the dinner table when she visits.She will plant the poisonous thought in your wife and work at it at every opportunity given.
The greatest enemy to your marriage is your wife's girlfriends. Keep an eye on her new found girlfriend who all of a sudden wants to take her out for a girl's only night out. Next it will be girl's only vacation. She knows everything about your marriage and about you.She doesn't like you very much even though she smiles at you at the dinner table when she visits.She will plant the poisonous thought in your wife and work at it at every opportunity given.
+1 women belong barefoot in the kitchen, no outings with friends.
Please ignore typos - Sent from iPhone while at a blackjack table at the Bellagio on a boys trip
People are incapable of taking a balanced view. “Men are piles of garbage.” Gimme a break. Women think they would be better off without their husbands…because he doesn’t do enough around the house? What a stupid reason to destroy a marriage, and separate a man from his children.
It would be the same as a man divorcing his wife because she gets overweight. It’s just selfish and stupid to break up a family over something like that. We all have flaws. Learning to live with each other’s flaws is part of being an adult, and having a successful marriage.
Such a balanced view you've shared. I guess you don't have experience doing the lion's share of the physical and emotional labor around the house, day in and day out for years. Otherwise you would understand why a woman (or man) would think they were better off without the dead weight around.
So a woman feels put upon…what of it. Feeling sorry for oneself is a terrible reason for divorce.
A lot of women settle for a guy they’re not really attracted to. At the start, the fact that it allows them to conform with social convention and affords them some security is enough, but nothing replaces raw, primal attraction. There are a lot of 30 year old women out there marrying guys they wouldn’t have looked twice at 7 years prior, and the ‘love’ in those situations isn’t sustainable. There’s an imbalance from the off, and it’ll eventually manifest as contempt.
Good point. I think a man maintaining attractiveness is a key way to keep a marriage together. As silly as it sounds, women are easily embarrassed in front of others, and want to have a man around that they are happy to show off. That’s just how it is. Men would do well to accept it, and act accordingly.
I'm white or Caucasian so is my wife. One of our children is black. She spent that pregnancy alone because I was selfishly deployed for 11 months. She held on a muscled through an 11 month pregnancy just so I can be there for the birth. The baby was born black but my wife said it is because she has black relatives in her blood line I believe her. Thankfully my friend Desean was around to help her with heavy things while I was gone. Reason why Desean is the God Father of our little Baracky.
I have walked through numerous mansions and have been on many lavish vacations and there are plenty of beautiful women in there 20's or 30's married to guys in there 50's to 70's that are completely happy and attracted to the men they are with. Let me tell you all jokes aside women are attracted more so to power and influence then they are to looks. Remember the 60 year old with the hot arm candy wife typically has enough status and power to do anything he wants and important people have his back all women find that attractive. These men are typically still in shape and good looking regardless of age because perfection remember is part of the reason why they are on top.
A lot of women settle for a guy they’re not really attracted to. At the start, the fact that it allows them to conform with social convention and affords them some security is enough, but nothing replaces raw, primal attraction. There are a lot of 30 year old women out there marrying guys they wouldn’t have looked twice at 7 years prior, and the ‘love’ in those situations isn’t sustainable. There’s an imbalance from the off, and it’ll eventually manifest as contempt.
Amen. They all settle just to do marriage then get cranky and start cheating.
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