there’s been a weird amount of incel posts on here lately. pretty sad
So should we just be quiet about it & pretend it doesn't happen? I use to be a closet incel but I could no longer hide it & I needed to talk about it openly.
Btw, some of us incels are trying to make changes:
Why is it that, according to you, everyone is either racist, doping or gay? Why are you so negative towards others?
Because this site has more than the usual number of racists, misogynists, ignoramuses and doping apologists. But I guess you feel at home amongst them.
Why is it that, according to you, everyone is either racist, doping or gay? Why are you so negative towards others?
Because this site has more than the usual number of racists, misogynists, ignoramuses and doping apologists. But I guess you feel at home amongst them.
as do you, apparently, since you're on here posting every day.
I haven't had to "chase" a woman for a few decades, and for a while I was sad for the current generation's twisted reality, then I realized: The same tool(s) that have twisted their mindset (smart phone social media apps mostly) were also the door to the entire world.
When, some time ago, my world was the newspaper I'd buy on the corner every morning, and the 15-20 people I might run into on a daily basis.
The fact that this generation can't buy a house, get a decent job, build security and wealth, and find someone they get along with, when they have access to every shred of information ever, is pretty ridiculous. I got off my butt and made stuff happen, with literally nothing in front of me. Maybe you could do the same, if you didn't waste away looking for the next bitcoin opportunity, or scroll through 9,000 'insta' posts daily. And if you just put the dang phone down, got off boards such as the one you're reading now, and went outside to DO something, it might help a bit.
I'm hardly more than average looking, older than a lot of you, with a wedding ring, and I can't go anywhere without getting looks from women. I have jobs falling into my lap. The house I bought for what is $700K today is double that to the people who want it from me now. Despite reports to the contrary, this is by FAR the best time ever to be alive, and that's clear when you look at what a lot of people are doing.
Why is it that, according to you, everyone is either racist, doping or gay? Why are you so negative towards others?
Because this site has more than the usual number of racists, misogynists, ignoramuses and doping apologists. But I guess you feel at home amongst them.
No need to hate on the gays just bc we're getting so much more action than you ;)
I haven't had to "chase" a woman for a few decades, and for a while I was sad for the current generation's twisted reality, then I realized: The same tool(s) that have twisted their mindset (smart phone social media apps mostly) were also the door to the entire world.
When, some time ago, my world was the newspaper I'd buy on the corner every morning, and the 15-20 people I might run into on a daily basis.
The fact that this generation can't buy a house, get a decent job, build security and wealth, and find someone they get along with, when they have access to every shred of information ever, is pretty ridiculous. I got off my butt and made stuff happen, with literally nothing in front of me. Maybe you could do the same, if you didn't waste away looking for the next bitcoin opportunity, or scroll through 9,000 'insta' posts daily. And if you just put the dang phone down, got off boards such as the one you're reading now, and went outside to DO something, it might help a bit.
I'm hardly more than average looking, older than a lot of you, with a wedding ring, and I can't go anywhere without getting looks from women. I have jobs falling into my lap. The house I bought for what is $700K today is double that to the people who want it from me now. Despite reports to the contrary, this is by FAR the best time ever to be alive, and that's clear when you look at what a lot of people are doing.
But not you. Right?
The funny thing is people who are currently above your wealth and stature would say how unsuccessful you are , considering how you lived through at a time when the internet market was full of thousand untapped opportunities to push your net worth up 100+ million. What you have right now is even less impressive if you were born in a first world country.
Serious reply here: The quality of human being these days is something to think long and hard about. The conclusion I have come to is that you are not going to find a decent woman out there that has not been washed and dried many times. If you think you can then I am amazed at your optimism. Its only facts that I am giving you. I have lived on this earth a short while but between it all I'ma say I seen it all.
I’m tired of getting chased by gross men that feel I owe them something
I'd open a door for you. And if you did the same for me I'd thank you and say, "your a nice lady." Then take it from there. That ''your a nice lady'' compliment takes most women by surprise. They're not use to hearing that. Many of them give me a second look and a big smile.
They might be smiling bemusedly at the use of the Victorian term "lady."
Only to discover they have like 3 other guys ready to fund their entire life.
The problem, frankly, is that you’re a broken person. The idea that you would “chase” someone—whatever that means—whom you find “average” or “not worth the trouble” is revolting. Why would you do this? Why not surround yourself, as much as you can, with people (of any gender) who are “worth the trouble” (by which I assume you mean emotional investment)? Why would you pursue something or someone whom you do not want? When I was single I always had crushes on amazing women—funny, intelligent, athletic, attractive. In short, worth all the trouble. It usually didn’t work out for me—which is normal, not a sign of deficiency—but at least I put the effort into women whose company made me feel amazing. How much must you hate yourself to put effort into a pursuit with a goal you don’t even want? And how much must you hate the people you’re pursuing to let them believe, through your apparent interest, that you think they are, at minimum, better than average? You need to work on yourself. Until then, leave other people alone. You’re not, as the saying goes, “worth the trouble.”
Chasing results in dysfunctional relationships. Start building relationships instead of chasing them, find out who fits with you and explore that some more.
Something to consider. When I use to compete I started realizing brining up running talk to a female on a date typically meant 2 things. 1.) I was not getting laid, and 2.) I was not getting a second date. We are runners which means typically we are not exactly the first line of defense a lady seeks out for protection in a guy. The further away from my racing days the less I talked about what I had run and so on. Eventually I found myself a solid lady. Women care about a few things. Are you successful and can you assist in providing a good life for her (For example: Nice Home, Nice Vacations, Money to not stress, and afford a family). A running buddy of mine dated a model and after they broke up he kept brining up the fact that she is now with some 50 year old Armenian Guy and kept thinking she would miss what they had. Over a few drinks I told him what she is missing out with the guy and mentioned she is in Vegas every other weekend, they have a 7,500 sqft home, the guy is filthy rich and he is also a pretty pleasant guy to be around. As you mentioned above about funding their life I don't think they necessarily want a guy to fund their life but I do think they want someone that is driven enough to have a life and want success in life. Most the runners I know with exception of the ones that hang it up and no longer race are not the most successful guys in the world. Women are not interested in you running some road race every weekend or ditching them to go chase some pipe dream. I still run I average roughly 30 Miles a week but get up early and get my miles in with no interruption on my familes life.
Because this site has more than the usual number of racists, misogynists, ignoramuses and doping apologists. But I guess you feel at home amongst them.
as do you, apparently, since you're on here posting every day.
So to criticize racists, misogynists, ignoramuses and doping apologists you have to be one?
Because this site has more than the usual number of racists, misogynists, ignoramuses and doping apologists. But I guess you feel at home amongst them.
No need to hate on the gays just bc we're getting so much more action than you ;)
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