OFOOS wrote:
The comparison to gays is not valid. Sexual orientation is purely mental; it's about who someone is attracted to. Trans issues are about both physical and mental differences.
I agree that "the comparison to gays is not valid." But disagree with the rest of your comment.
Sexual orientation is physical as much as it is mental. It's very easy to ascertain people's sexual orientation because humans respond physically to sexual stimuli in a variety of totally involuntary ways that are observable to others and have been verified, measured and documented by sexologists (and described by poets and pop music lyricists going way back in time): pupils dilate, hearts race and pulses quicken, palms sweat, blood rushes to the pelvis and genitals and blood vessels dilate, leading the skin to warm, saliva production increases.... In sexually mature human males, the penis grows in sizes, stiffens and stands up. In sexually mature human females, the vagina and labia lubricate, the vagina lengthens, the cervix moves position, the clitoris becomes engorged and harder...
This goes in the reverse too: people's sexual orientation can be ascertained and verified by the sexual stimuli that they have no physical response to. Which leaves them cold and unmoved, as it were.
Also, sexual orientation is behavioral too. In countries, cultures, historical periods and situations where people are allowed to exercise their own personal choice about whom they date, have sex with, marry and/or couple up with, most people will choose in line with their sexual orientation.
What are the objectively verifiable "physical and mental differences" that people who "identify as" the opposite sex and say they are "trans" all have in common with one another? What distinguishes them mentally and physically from those of us who've not adopted the "trans" label?
According to the latest gender identity dogma, it's transphobic and discriminatory "gatekeeping" to believe and say that being trans requires having a particular mindset, feeling a certain way, making physical changes to one's body, or altering one's appearance, affect or behavior in any way.
To be trans nowadays, all a person has to do is claim to "identify as" the opposite sex - or claim to "identify as" neither sex, or as a mixture of both sexes simultaneously.