life dreams 101 wrote:
Good news all. He texted me last night asking if we were still on for today!
Thanks for the update, now I can sleep this week.
life dreams 101 wrote:
Good news all. He texted me last night asking if we were still on for today!
Thanks for the update, now I can sleep this week.
life dreams 101 wrote:
I am actually female lol. The guy who posted there wasn't me.
We went on the date. We actually ended up walking around the area for most of it and chatted for 3-4 hours. I thought we got along well. We make conversation the whole time and had a lot of things to discuss with each other. At the end we were a little awkward saying we'd send each other some articles/video clips we'd talked about on the date and didn't really know how to end it properly beyond just saying bye and saying it was good.
I see potential and am up for going for another date. He strikes me as a shy guy when it comes to dating/romance related things (no problem when it comes to conversation). Thinking about waiting a day or two and then striking up conversation with him. I thought we had a good thing going but who knows how he feels.
1/10
Jamin, you should go just incase he shows up. Hope Hardloper is okay with this.
life dreams 101 wrote:
This guy and I met 2 weeks ago and started chatting and texting. Last weekend, we decided to go get coffee this weekend (tomorrow). Our conversation was on Monday, where we agreed on a time and then he asked if I lived in (same vicinity). I said I did and that was the last text.
We're supposed to meet tomorrow afternoon. If he doesn't text to confirm, should I ask him if we're still on even though I sent the last text? Not sure what the etiquette is here.
I suppose you are pretty ugly to care so much about a date.
We had very natural conversation the whole time we were walking and talking which was nice. I think I can tell, like me, he is shy when it comes to dating/romance (making conversation is no problem). For people like that, how can you tell if someone's into you? Is us having fun and making conversation the whole time a good sign?
I was going to message him later tonight saying it was fun yesterday, here's the website I had told you about.
life dreams 101 wrote:
For people like that, how can you tell if someone's into you?
- try to kiss him or try to hold his hand. How does he respond?
- or ask him if he likes you
This is not complicated. Why do you keep wanting to make it complicated?
Anyway, what are his PRs?
Because I'm shy myself :/
life dreams 101 wrote:
I was going to message him later tonight saying it was fun yesterday, here's the website I had told you about.
I hope you did. This wait two days stuff is stupid.
Troll thread or not open honest communication is the key to relationships romantic or platonic. It is never about who called/texted last it is always about who has something to say.
life dreams 101 wrote:
Okay thanks guys if I dont hear from him by 11-12 tomorrow (we're supposed to meet at 2) I'll send him a text asking "is today at 2 still good? where do you want to meet?"
Offer the place and reiterate the time. Offering the place gives you an excuse for texting (besides getting a confirmation)--the addition of new information.
wineturtle wrote:
life dreams 101 wrote:I was going to message him later tonight saying it was fun yesterday, here's the website I had told you about.
I hope you did. This wait two days stuff is stupid.
Troll thread or not open honest communication is the key to relationships romantic or platonic. It is never about who called/texted last it is always about who has something to say.
This. If you want to talk to him, text him. You don't need to do it 15 minutes after the date ends, but there is no reason to wait 2 days and appear "aloof". If you want to see him again, tell him that! If he is not interested, he is not going to agree to meet again. That sucks, but it's not the end of the world. At least you find out now and don't waste weeks/months/years in an insincere relationship because of poor communication.
life dreams 101 wrote: I think I can tell, like me, he is shy when it comes to dating/romance (making conversation is no problem). For people like that, how can you tell if someone's into you?
Such drama. Just put your tongue his mouth, one hand on his butt and the other hand down his pants. If he doesn't resist, you're golden. Lust comes first, love second. Carry on.
Get the second date, then do this:
life dreams 101 wrote:
We had very natural conversation the whole time we were walking and talking which was nice. I think I can tell, like me, he is shy when it comes to dating/romance (making conversation is no problem). For people like that, how can you tell if someone's into you? Is us having fun and making conversation the whole time a good sign?
That's the best way to form a good relationship.
Ignore the responses about being aggressive.
Just be yourself.
I did message him that it was fun and sent him a link to the article we had talked about.
We talked consistently throughout and both learned about each other / asked about each other so I thought that was good at least... but I can tell that we are both shy about dating/romance (ie making moves etc). I'm interested and if he replies back hopefully we can meet again sometime.
what kind of emoticons are you using in your texts? Send him the poop emoticon with a winky face and the hot pepper. He'll get the picture.
If this thread reaches its 4th page, I'm bumping it to 2/10 status.
Juan Pablo wrote:
If this thread reaches its 4th page, I'm bumping it to 2/10 status.
Why? Trolling a troll who doesn't know when to stop trolling is much fun. 0/10 is the maximum possible score.