Excerpt from the person you are very quick to call a complete fool:
"Sorry for the misunderstanding earlier," the statement read. "Desi was frustrated with the fact that she is a long way from 100% both fitness wise and health. She had decided that it was probably best to pull out of the Marathon. After discussing her options with the Olympic coaches and medical staff, they convinced her that she deserves the entire experience and that means giving herself every chance to make it to the starting line."
Though I agree he should have waited for a formal withdrawal prior to sending something to a newspaper. Tough situation for him as a coach, tougher for the athlete.