Take home pay is: 11,000
Monthly mortgage expenses are: $5,000
We put $2000 in to savings, in addition to 401k and employee stock
We have extensive savings and live pretty frugally. Our biggest expense, by far, is housing. But, we met with accountants, lawyers, etc. and really thought about our purchase before diving into the market. We do have some tax advantages as part of our house (2-unit building) is deductible as a rental. Is this situation for everyone? Nope. But it works for us. We still take vacations, go skiing, eat out occasionally. We do not buy fancy cars, new clothes each month or anything like that, though.