To marry inside a Catholic church, one of you, at the least, must become Eastern Orthodox and the other must agree to raise the kids Orthodox.My wife tried raising the kids Catholic but our kids hung out at the Buddhist Temple and sorta drifted that way. My wife also sorta became Shinto-Buddhist. Really we just got attached to the sports at the temple, it's not healthy as far as I'm concerned to lose sight of the world by getting caught up in old ways. The kids are all grown up and two were married at our temple. I still like the Catholic Church, they're cool to me.