How do you answer when she asks how many other woman I have been with

The correct answer is: We All Have a past.

Shuts them up every time.

concerned female wrote:

It's not tacky. It's important to have an idea of how many women a guy's been with to know how many diseases he might have. One guy I dated said he has been with about 20 women. Does that mean it's really 40 or 10?

Maybe it means 20?

always answer 5. it's low enough that most won't be mad, but high enough that you can be experienced.

im freaking only 24 and have been with 15+ girls...most of my male friends double that and most of my female friends are around where i am....if you are in the single digits you are missing out...

not getting any.. wrote:

im freaking only 24 and have been with 15+ girls...most of my male friends double that and most of my female friends are around where i am....if you are in the single digits you are missing out...

No, I'm nearly twice your age and am in the lower end of single digits, and it doesn't bother me. I'm sort of proud of it, actually. Of course, I'm also female, if that means anything.

We All have a past.

Especially if we are late forties.

The Dude that Pegged her last week just walked into the bar/room/restaurant.

Ante up wrote:

Yep wrote:

Lie and say what all women say. Once! That way you're not coming across as totally inexperienced but still pure enough for her liking.

Or tell her you're a virgin. When she laughs and questions you further you say. Numbers don't matter, you're all that matters to me now and put your hand on her hand.

Thus proving that all men are pigs, and that all you want is to get into her pants.Seriously, that would creep anyone out.

Thus proving that Ante up is an idiot.

"How do you answer when she asks how many other woman I have been with?"

Dude, I *don't* answer when she asks about you. I tell her to ask you directly.

It was a trick question, right? What do I win?

not getting any.. wrote:

im freaking only 24 and have been with 15+ girls...

Is that just a cooler way of saying 16 while making the number look bigger? Or did you lose count somewhere along the way?

I messed up and learned wrote:

More joking laughing then she asks how many woman I have been with.

You're qualifying question should be:

"You mean the most women I have been with at the same time?"

This makes the situation light-heart and funny. Also, you can tell if she is open to multiple women or group sex without directly asking that. Cha-ching.

I don't know what kind of answer she was looking for, but it seems to me that any answer would have been wrong to her. I would never think of asking that unless I was in a committed relationship with the person, and even then, I'm not sure that it's any of my business. Unless she was looking for something serious (in which case, her question can wait till she knows you better), what does that number matter anyway if she wanted a fling? I know my bf is in the double digits and I'm nowhere near that, but what does that change in our relationship? Nothing. He's faithful, and his past is the past. Steer clear of her!

2,248. My lifelong goal is to beat Wilt's record. I was hoping you would be 2,249.

Dude, she already decided she was going to leave. She just needed an excuse.

I asked that question and she gave me a number, 9. I found her diary later and found out that I was really number 19. Lying is never any good. I had issues trusting her after that one lie. Oh, and then she ended up cheating on me later, so go figure.

Exactly. It does sound like she was looking for an excuse to leave. She was probably bored.

3 things guys:

1) Highschool doesn't count.

2) less than 3 and you should be considered for the Priesthood.

3) Girls, any guy that is reasonably good looking/successful under 15 is a great find.

3 things girls:

1) Highschool counts.

2) No matter what you think you are or where you live, its a point of honor to be lower in number. Chastity means something, it means the mans babies won't die in your womb from the rotten man juices festering in that bubicle.

3) Your body is a temple. Only believers may enter.

ok, I know this is really 4 things for the girls, but in today's culture you have so little actual guidance I just thought I'd help.

36y/o 6'1" 190

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Update...

Thanks everyone for the advice.

We talked yesterday for about an hour. Things seem okay and we have a tentative date set up for Sunday. I am a little concerned it will happen...like all woman she really seems to enjoy sending mixed signals. I get a slight sense she is playing and leading me on so we'll see if the date happens.

She said my number of 8 shocked her because she is looking for a realationship and it seemed high. She was afraid I just want to have sex with her and nothing else. The guy she was with last week is her "f**k buddy" haha...those were her exact words! She said she would rather be with fewer guys and have just one "f**K buddy" to take care of her needs. She says she wants a relationship and will get rid of the "f**K buddy" when she actually has a boyfriend.

Women are weird, I dont know what if our date will happen Sunday but I'll let everyone know.

you sound like a women's magazine. stop reading that shit and think for yourself.

I messed up and learned wrote:

She said my number of 8 shocked her because she is looking for a realationship and it seemed high. She was afraid I just want to have sex with her and nothing else. The guy she was with last week is her "f**k buddy" haha...those were her exact words! She said she would rather be with fewer guys and have just one "f**K buddy" to take care of her needs. She says she wants a relationship and will get rid of the "f**K buddy" when she actually has a boyfriend.

I can't wait to see how this train wreck ends...