Accidentally called someone fat on Tinder and now she's threatening to email my boss

Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:

Men are a lot more welcoming, open minded and flexible when it comes to dating and dating apps. On dating apps, almost all the women want the same men and it's about the top 3% best ones. The rest of men get starved for attention, which is brutal to deal with.

Conversely, basically all the women on dating apps get attention. A lot of times, the average looking ones will get more attention than the prettiest ones because men won't even bother trying with them. That's also a reason why you see so many delusional women who have nothing going for them thinking they're 10/10 due to men pampering and showering them with affection.

Dating is tough for men. They're expected to make the first move and face rejection from the women who oftentimes have air tight, unreasonable standards-- especially online and on dating apps. This reality also will imply to most men in a relationahip and/or married that their woman settled for him but would rather have chosen a better man had she had the opportunity. Men will date women who are below the mans league, but women will not date a man who's not equal to or better than herself.

Pesci Details wrote:

Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:

Men are a lot more welcoming, open minded and flexible when it comes to dating and dating apps. On dating apps, almost all the women want the same men and it's about the top 3% best ones. The rest of men get starved for attention, which is brutal to deal with.

Conversely, basically all the women on dating apps get attention. A lot of times, the average looking ones will get more attention than the prettiest ones because men won't even bother trying with them. That's also a reason why you see so many delusional women who have nothing going for them thinking they're 10/10 due to men pampering and showering them with affection.

Dating is tough for men. They're expected to make the first move and face rejection from the women who oftentimes have air tight, unreasonable standards-- especially online and on dating apps. This reality also will imply to most men in a relationahip and/or married that their woman settled for him but would rather have chosen a better man had she had the opportunity. Men will date women who are below the mans league, but women will not date a man who's not equal to or better than herself.

That you spent many minutes of your life to actually write this little men's rights incel screed would be hilarious if it wasn't so sad and pathetic

Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:

Men are a lot more welcoming, open minded and flexible when it comes to dating and dating apps. On dating apps, almost all the women want the same men and it's about the top 3% best ones. The rest of men get starved for attention, which is brutal to deal with.

Conversely, basically all the women on dating apps get attention. A lot of times, the average looking ones will get more attention than the prettiest ones because men won't even bother trying with them. That's also a reason why you see so many delusional women who have nothing going for them thinking they're 10/10 due to men pampering and showering them with affection.

Dating is tough for men. They're expected to make the first move and face rejection from the women who oftentimes have air tight, unreasonable standards-- especially online and on dating apps. This reality also will imply to most men in a relationahip and/or married that their woman settled for him but would rather have chosen a better man had she had the opportunity. Men will date women who are below the mans league, but women will not date a man who's not equal to or better than herself.

samcallan wrote:

tinder guy wrote:

It's basically exactly what the title said. I met her for dinner yesterday and she was easily 50 pounds heavier than her photos. So I left immediately because she wasted my time and I wasn't attracted to her at all because of the weight gain. Then I sent her a couple of messages, saying stuff along the lines of 'fat pig...' (I didn't use any slurs as there not in my vocabulary and I didn't even call her a b*tch) and talking about how she wasted my time and needs to lose 50 pounds or else no man will find her attractive. Now she's found my specific job and is threatening to email my boss with what I said. What's the best way to avoid this?

Should I try to see if I can get her to state that she'd take $ to shut up and then have my lawyer older brother write a letter about blackmail? Or is there another better way? I care about my reputation first and foremost and don't really regret what I said as she wasted my time and catfished me, but if I have to fake repentance I could do that. Some 'last resort' steps I could think of would be trying to leak my information on the dark web so I can say I was hacked / it was a fake profile or claiming that I'm bi?

Weak. Please up your troll game...

tinder guy wrote:

It's basically exactly what the title said. I met her for dinner yesterday and she was easily 50 pounds heavier than her photos. So I left immediately because she wasted my time and I wasn't attracted to her at all because of the weight gain. Then I sent her a couple of messages, saying stuff along the lines of 'fat pig...' (I didn't use any slurs as there not in my vocabulary and I didn't even call her a b*tch) and talking about how she wasted my time and needs to lose 50 pounds or else no man will find her attractive. Now she's found my specific job and is threatening to email my boss with what I said. What's the best way to avoid this?

Should I try to see if I can get her to state that she'd take $ to shut up and then have my lawyer older brother write a letter about blackmail? Or is there another better way? I care about my reputation first and foremost and don't really regret what I said as she wasted my time and catfished me, but if I have to fake repentance I could do that. Some 'last resort' steps I could think of would be trying to leak my information on the dark web so I can say I was hacked / it was a fake profile or claiming that I'm bi?