Guys, after reading all your angry responses, I've concluded I'm in the right. I gave the guy a Christmas present (and a pretty nice one too, a Nike Watch), and I'll give him something on his birthday, but sharing my prizes with him is just too much. No one has really given a solid reason for doing it.
I would say that if you win money, give him a cut. If you win merchandise, give him a gift (or money) that is a percentage of it.
You are not obligated to do this, but it creates good will.
I am one of thoose coaches that coach for the love of the sport. The only thing I have ever wanted was to see the athlete improve, and to be thanked when those improvements materialize. I would never ask or expect a portion of a prize, and would even turn it down.
I would appreciate, however, a show of gratitude at the conclusion of the season, such as being taken to dinner. What I find even better is a gesture (such as dinner or movie tickets) that includes my girlfriend, who many times spent time alone while I was dedicating my time to helping you to reach your goals.
Then again, this guy sending you e-mails, giving you workouts, which he probably stole from one of the many books out there, and hooking up once a month, really deserves little more than a "tahnk you".
Have fun at the spa... with your girlfriend.
I agree with the second part of this. I don't really care about your lady friend, but you shouldn't have to give your coach your prizes. A case of beer or a pair of running shoes would be perfect to show your appreciation.
edison runner wrote:
Your girl has done alot for you. It's not like your coach was there at the track standing with a clip board and watch.
However you should have given him a case of his favorite beer regardless of your race results.
its very simple.
if you dont feel you owe him anything, then you dont need him as a coach.
nyc wrote:
its very simple.
if you dont feel you owe him anything, then you dont need him as a coach.
From the original poster:
Here's the catch: the guy offered his services pro-bono, claimed he loved running, but couldn't compete, so he wanted to help others.
Pro bono... for free. Give him a "thank you"... it's the least you could do.
The guy says he isn\\\'t in it for anything but love of the sport and the first real positive award you recieve and he wants his cut? Thats a scumbag move, you ran the race, f*** him.
16:40 - a monkey could have trained you to run 16:40 don't give that coach anything until you see the 13:00's!
I am a college coach currently and on the side I coach local runners. I would never ask them for any of their prizes. The reward for me is seeing them approve and making a difference in someones running. Some people are so materialistic. Hey buddy your the one who put your card out in the public, and if you are coaching for reward money then stop doing it. Your doing it for the wrong reason.