Ex L wrote:
Jennifer Lopez is one of the most beautiful women on the world.
Ben Affleck himself is a divorced alcoholic who blew it with her the first time, years ago.
Why don’t you think she is a fool for getting engaged to him?
Disagreed HARD on your first sentence.
Affleck is divorced (just once though, not three times), and he IS an alcoholic, but really what happened the first time is he dodged a bullet. Now, he has jumped in front of another one.
They are both fools. He is the bigger fool. People in Affleck's situation have redeemed themselves. I have yet to see a thrice-divorced person who has.