I haven't had to "chase" a woman for a few decades, and for a while I was sad for the current generation's twisted reality, then I realized: The same tool(s) that have twisted their mindset (smart phone social media apps mostly) were also the door to the entire world.
When, some time ago, my world was the newspaper I'd buy on the corner every morning, and the 15-20 people I might run into on a daily basis.
The fact that this generation can't buy a house, get a decent job, build security and wealth, and find someone they get along with, when they have access to every shred of information ever, is pretty ridiculous. I got off my butt and made stuff happen, with literally nothing in front of me. Maybe you could do the same, if you didn't waste away looking for the next bitcoin opportunity, or scroll through 9,000 'insta' posts daily. And if you just put the dang phone down, got off boards such as the one you're reading now, and went outside to DO something, it might help a bit.
I'm hardly more than average looking, older than a lot of you, with a wedding ring, and I can't go anywhere without getting looks from women. I have jobs falling into my lap. The house I bought for what is $700K today is double that to the people who want it from me now. Despite reports to the contrary, this is by FAR the best time ever to be alive, and that's clear when you look at what a lot of people are doing.
But not you. Right?