True, I really only count like it like a week because there was intent to ask her out a week ago. Heck thats what the phone call was for. My therapist told me not to worry that she would be just nervous as I am
True, I really only count like it like a week because there was intent to ask her out a week ago. Heck thats what the phone call was for. My therapist told me not to worry that she would be just nervous as I am
stuck with match.com wrote:
True, I really only count like it like a week because there was intent to ask her out a week ago. Heck thats what the phone call was for. My therapist told me not to worry that she would be just nervous as I am
You have a therapist....who would have thunk it?
You are going to actually have to ask her out and go on a date w/ her. You know, to keep the story moving along. This part has grown stale.
So I just went in there with the intention of asking her out. But she wasn't there. WTF, why is it that whenever I intend to ask her out she's not there/ doesn't answer. 3rd time I've prepared myself to ask her out only to be given a chance. It really feels worse than rejection because a bunch of questions start going through my head. What do I do now, where do I go blah blah blah. It's frustrating. By asking her I know instanly how she feels. All the questions in my head go away, because I will know the answer. I'm going to go in again today, who knows maybe she was on break. If not then I'll have to wait until Monday since calling her doesn't seem effective.
Dude don't call her again man. Haven't you bothered this poor girl enough. If I were her I would get a restraining order for your lame desperate a$$
Sounds to me like she is aware you are interested, but she isn't sure, so she is not going to be the one to make the move. At this point you are walking the thin line. If you drag it out much longer she will began to think you are weird.
Next time you see her just do it. If you can't munster up the courage than give it up and move on.
I disagree, don't ask her next time you see her. Pick up that phone and call her now, whats the worse that could happen.
agree to disagree wrote:
I disagree, don't ask her next time you see her. Pick up that phone and call her now, whats the worse that could happen.
He'll string you idiots along for a while longer.
Epic TROLL THREAD 10/10!!!
Will go down in letsrun hall of fame!!!!???!!!
Who else is seeing a therapist besides me and the OP Stuck with match.com???
Also, I stopped seeing therapist about 8months ago. Was seeing one for about a year and a half after the breakup 3 years ago.
Yeah I was seeing a therapist... until I found out she was sleeping with her personal trainer.
Girl Probs in College wrote:
Who else is seeing a therapist besides me and the OP Stuck with match.com???
Also, I stopped seeing therapist about 8months ago. Was seeing one for about a year and a half after the breakup 3 years ago.
Did you stop seeing your therapist because you had gotten better or because your therapist wasn't doing a good job? Sometimes I feel like my therapist doesn't help me.
Today I asked her out on a date at the coffee shop, in person. I was nervous as heck but I'm glad I got it out of me. It had a been a while since I asked someone out in person. Anyway I got the I have to check my schedule text me later go around. So I got in a nice way, no or at least thats what I'm assuming. I'll know for sure in a little bit.
We it didn't go too badly, good luck man.
Nice job being one.
txt her that your therapist told you it was time to ask her out.
did the cops show up at your door yet?
I'm about to send the text to ask her what shes doing tomorrow.
I feel like what this is really saying is:
thanks for not emberassing me in front of your other patrons today by rejecting me. Now you can do it by text and not feel as bad.
Yup, say that exactly. Women love it. Way to be the alpha male.
Don't text her or talk to her again. It's really your only chance at ever getting her.
Well its official she gave me the I'm too busy this week with exams and so on. So yeah the whole going for the coffee shop girl thing is done with. It was fun while it lasted. I want to thank everybody who gave me great advice. A special shout outs to
Girl Probs in college - Your since advice was great and helpful
Mrs. M. - Sometimes critical but you kept on giving
Mr. Obvious - Kept it real
I know I'm a dick - your criticism kept me on task
SUP BRO - Always funny, it would be great to see one more post from you
Who knows maybe I'll strike up a converation with the girl that works at a abercrombie and fitch store or something sometime soon.