Dating opportunities for straight men are diminishing as ‘healthy relationship standards increase’

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You're Not The Man Your Father Was

Neil Howe

Traditional ideas about manhood are getting a shakeup as today’s lower-androgen men grapple with both physiological and social change.

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Also, a lot of them have low T

Onlyfans and social media has made low value women (let's say 4-6) feel like they're a 10 and that they all deserve Chads

Sweet bump, incel.

Stay the hell away from online dating and porn.

My experience as a young widower (40) is that many attractive women were available but many were such poor communicators or emotionally unstable it was possible to have lots of ‘fun’ but not good long term prospects. I’m proud to say I avoided the temptation of just going all frat boy and eventually found a reasonable and competent wife who was my age ish and saw the world the same way I did. This was my experience: It was fish/barrel easy with late 20-50s though. I’m not some Brad Pitt looking dude or stupid rich either. The desperation of the 45+ crowd was almost painful, like truly sad. The younger options were obviously nice to look at, but it felt like I was dealing with someone from a different culture - it was a gulf too wide to close.

Quality men prefer trans women

When something very obvious is blatantly ignored, you know there’s an agenda involved.

Looking back at my family I feel like this must be true. Between my parents, their siblings, and grandparents there are (or were in case of grandparents+one divorced aunt/uncle) 7 married couples.

Of those 7 couples on the men's side my dad + paternal grandfather are borderline alcoholic aholes and I have two uncles who are full-blown alcoholics and one who is just very controlling. That means 5/7 men have very negative relationship qualities.

Of the 7 women, all are very nice except for one of my aunts, but she's married to one of the alcoholics.

So in a world with higher standards with more objective relationship pairings my dad, grandfather, and two of my uncles would either be single or with much trashier women than they actually are.

Over 2 million views in a month:

“Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and of those over 80% of the time it’s the woman asking for the divorce.”

A Divorce Attorney's Thoughts On Love and Marriage-James Sexton

YouTube keeps trying to get me to watch this.

Monogamous family units are literally the foundation of civilization as we know it.

Ancient Greece, the United States, and everything inbetween couldnt have been built if the men laying down bricks and mining for resources and building infrastructure and creating fields of study didnt have women (which they were pretty much guaranteed due to socially enforced monogamy) to go home to who raised their children, took care of their houses, and who cooked for them. They would have had no ambition due to lack of child prospects, they wouldnt have had as much energy to dedicate to their crafts due to having no support structure, and they would have been generally miserable. Which is exactly what were seeing now with most men AND most women because they would rather chase chads c ock, rack up hundred body counts, and generally self inflict long term unstability and misery upon themselves than learn to love their looksmatches and create a family.

Were living through an unprecedented period of human history where, after built ourselves a way of life upon a thousand years of socially enforced monogamy and restricted female sexuality, we somehow decided that it would be a good idea to let women run sexually rampant and return this civilization to an animalistic sexually driven shi tshow where year by year fewer and fewer children are born and of those more and more belong to single mothers who got knocked up by some 70iq criminal drug dealer. And these fu c king moron politicians blame it on low salaries as if the poorest countries on earth dont have the highest fertility rates. Its honestly mind boggling and makes me feel absolutely zero empathy towards women

Today someone accidentally texted me, I responded sorry wrong number, have a nice day, and this person, presumably a dude, proceeded to ask me out for coffee.

While not any more random than an app, seems a bit desperate.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but does your post mean you think women should be forced into monogamy and men should be the only ones to run sexually rampant ?

Perhaps the widespread availability of birth control in wealthier countries has something to do with those lower fertility rates.

LetsIncel at it again!

Polygamy was extremely common in all of the foundational civilizations. Historically speaking, strict monogamy is rare

Your inability to feel empathy towards women indicates that you don't count them as psychological peers. It's unlikely that a desirable woman will want a partner who does not consider her a peer, so by holding onto this opinion, you are hamstringing yourself. Consider altering your approach

The main suppressor of birth rates is economic opportunity. Modern economies allow people to trade some of their reproductive window for socioeconomic fitness by training for a specialized job. Often times, people won't have kids until they're 50-75% of the way through their window, which means that they'll usually have 50-75% fewer kids

Look you have to learn the trade of knowledge from me, your RF King fast! Literally every physical, mental, social, emotional malaise in modern societies, save untouched bushlands and deserts of North and East Africa, is directly caused by anthropogenic RF and EMF cumulative exposures that increases in space and time.

60 years ago, the world only had an electrical power supply grid, commercial and military radars, commercial FM/AM radio broadcasts, AM TVs and that's about it, very few computers and any other electronic devices. Then these abovementioned technologies only started increasing as even more electronic devices that carried an electric current and emitted a signal started penetrating the commercial market such as mobile phones and computers. The consumption of the electrical power grid also increased with the increase of all these new gadgets and devices. Then the world started inventing a new wireless communication system that allows any user to tap into it anywhere in the world. They call it 2G GSM in 1991, then 3G UMTS and HSPA in 2001, then 4G LTE in 2011, 4G+ Volte in 2017, and finally 5G in 2020/21. You then started having also WiFi in the early 2000s which developed to become more powerful and stronger to the detriment of the human mind and body.

The sum of all these abovementioned destroys sperm, semen, prostrate, ovules, ovaries and also destroys marriage between man and woman as these RF and EMF causes mental illness such as fear, anxiety, depression, vengeance, lust, psychosis, neurosis, OCD, bipolar which would precisely make less available marriageable men and women for one another.

Nonsense, the plummeting birth and marriage rate is completely a physical mechanism of anthropogenic RF and EMF cumulative erosion of total health. The economic and political mechanism you and the rest on this forum so avow is fundamentally also a physical mechanism of the same.