going to reiterate a point I made earlier in the boards.
We have to learn something from all of this.
Alberto Salazar was once the most admired figure in US distance running. His "cutting edge" techniques were revered. He was looked at with great reverence because he was a legend who was returning to his roots to save US distance running from itself. We let him into a high school. We let him get his teeth into a teenager. He immersed himself into the kid's family, life, religious values and every being--some would call a lot of what he did grooming--and then controlled his every move going forward.
He was physically, psychologically, and sexually abusive, and he was that way for years. We ignored all the signs. When other kids went to be coached by him we marveled and oooohed and ahhhhed.
We defended him when SEVERAL people who worked around him and ran for him brought up credible allegations of abusing prescription drugs. We defended him when Mary Cain, once a teenage darling brimming with potential, now a washed up 23 year old, accused him of psychological abuse. We turned our backs on several other athletes AYB, Kara who said they were psychologically abused too and all the witnesses, Cam Jenkins, Steve Magness and others who say they saw it happen.
Let's learn something. Let's actually learn something. let's stop idealizing coaches just because they get results, ESPECIALLY when those coaches coach high school kids. That's not to say that every coach is an abuser. But asking some questions might be fair to do, and not licking out of the palm of their hand might also be a safe choice. And don't ignore things that are out of the ordinary. There's this idea extraordinary results only happen with out of the ordinary actions. But that isn't true. Look at Jenny Simpson's high school coach. A regular dude. Katelyn Tuohy's coach, a regular dude. Emma Coburn, Evan Jager, Kara Goucher--in fact do you realize that an overwhelming majority of successful pro runners came from high school teams that DIDN'T qualify for NXN or weren't nationally ranked? Central Catholic when Galen ran, was.
Rules to live by for high school coaches
Your coach shouldn't allow you to live in their home when you are a teenager.
Your coach shouldn't be calling your parents and lecturing them on what their child should be eating at home
Your coach should really have limited interactions with an athlete's family. Not no interaction but they shouldn't really be so close they are having telephone conversations every night.
I'm not religious but I don't think that your coach should be your religious sponsor. let that be a longtime family friend or relative?
Your coach shouldn't send you to doctors, even ones sponsored by Nike. Parents/Guardians should be in charge of all medical decisions.
Your coach should not be giving massages. Let a licensed professional do that.
Coaches shouldn't play favorites even with the fastest on the team. The coaches own children should not be referring to any athlete as the coaches favorite child.