Yes you guys did get through to me, I realized two things.
1. Its better to be confident about the wrong choice than wishy washy about the right choice.
2. If she has interest in me it really shouldn't matter what I ask her to. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. I need to quit overthinking and pysching myself out.
RonnyH wrote:
Coffee is just coffee?
You sir are an idiot.
Coffee is NEVER just coffee. Coffee is sex.
stuck with match.com wrote:
2. If she has interest in me it really shouldn't matter what I ask her to. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. I need to quit overthinking and pysching myself out.
CAUTION: Her interest in you WILL be dampened if you ask her out on a lame date (e.g., ice cream).
Mother, make it stop!
OldXCguy wrote:
Mother, make it stop!
Just trying to be helpful. The guy seems really desperate and clueless.
stuck with match.com wrote:
Yes you guys did get through to me, I realized two things.
1. Its better to be confident about the wrong choice than wishy washy about the right choice.
2. If she has interest in me it really shouldn't matter what I ask her to. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. I need to quit overthinking and pysching myself out.
ho. lee. fuhhhh. cking. shite man!
you now have the secret recipe to a healthy and happy life.
ehhhh wrote:
Coffee is just coffee?
Coffee is NEVER just coffee. Coffee is sex.
The Cowboy Junkies said it best:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wajeboLV9xcTake her to a MLB game. You get to be outside, talk, watch baseball. It is a perfect first date.
I hope this thread never dies.
turner field wrote:
Take her to a MLB game. You get to be outside, talk, watch baseball. It is a perfect first date.
I took my girlfriend to WNBA games. She could eat all she wanted for a pretty cheap price, her skin wouldn't burn in the sun and she enjoyed watching those ladies make layups.
Ice cream is perfect, provided you fire up a bowl beforehand.
I called her today, got the voicemail. I didn't leave a message because that would have been desperate. I also didn't ponder the decision for an hour or so. I just got up, pressed the button and boom it was done in 30 seconds.
flaneur wrote:
I hope this thread never dies.
Ditto. I expect to be invited to the wedding.
Sure in the really rare (almost none, lloyd christmas- you're telling me theres a chance) chance. I will invite anybody who has posted to the wedding. Even 'I know i'm a dick'. I want SUP BRO to be there too, it would be interesting to hear what he would have to say.
SUP BRO should start working on the toast now.
stuck with match.com wrote:
I want SUP BRO to be there too, it would be interesting to hear what he would have to say.
It would also be interesting to watch him get shit faced and hit on the maid of honor. This will be the best wedding ever.
stuck with match.com wrote:
Sure in the really rare (almost none, lloyd christmas- you're telling me theres a chance) chance. I will invite anybody who has posted to the wedding. Even 'I know i'm a dick'. I want SUP BRO to be there too, it would be interesting to hear what he would have to say.
awwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks!
I only skimmed through this thread, apparently you got a number which is a good sign. This thread is funny. I am married now, but did well when I was single (I strung my wife along for over 4 years before biting the bullet :-).
Anyway, you said something interesting before; yes, always be confident, even if you're wrong. You have a better chance of changing someone's mind to your favor that way; the other way, you may change their mind in the way you don't want.
I was in a similar situation to you many years ago. The girl was actual a hostess at a very upscale restaurant in my neighborhood. She was SMOKIN' hot! Exotic model hot! Anyway, I would grab a drink at the bar, talk, etc. This went on for a little while, essentially letting her get to know me that I was a good-guy, etc. She initially thought I was an okay guy and all, but wanted nothing to do with me as I was a customer; perhaps I wasn't even her type, who remembers. Subtly, and with confidence I eventually gave her my number, twice, actually; she never called. I still went back to the place and made no big deal about it, may be we spoke about it, may be we didn't, I don't remember. The third time as the charm. She actually whispered in my ear, "I put my phone number in your jacket pocket, call me later". And that was that. Unfortunately, for the worse, she became my girlfriend at that time in my life.
Be confident, yourself, not creepy nor desperate and you'll be fine. Contrary to what many may say, women do like the chase, just don't be a weirdo about it. If she really wants nothing to do with you at all, you'll know, you will know.
I am not reading over the last 300 or so posts. I was one of the first few to read the thread. With this in mind, I am hoping that by now you should have gotten a bj or at least a hand job. Otherwise, EPIC FAIL frtom your part.
Cool story Just some guy. I admire your courage to keep giving her your number. You played in nicely by being persistent without being annoying. That takes skill. Does this mean that if I call her again she'll pick up the third time.