SDSU Aztec wrote:
There is no middle ground between banning transgender athletes or letting them compete. It would be like an agreement between pro-choice and pro-life.
Sure there's a middle ground. Other boys and men can make people like Lia Thomas, CeCe Telfer and June Eastwood feel welcome, at home and safe continuing to compete and share locker/change rooms, showers, toilets, overnight team sleeping arrangements, etc with others of their own sex. Boys and men can stop being dxcks and bullies to guys they regard as insufficiently manly.
A main reason that the entire onus for being "inclusive" is being placed on girls and women is because so many boys and men are intolerant of gender nonconformity amongst your own sex. And because even in 2021, too many guys even in the Western world remain uncomfortable with homosexuality - and much of the general public mistakenly assumes that most males who "identify as" women today are gay, when in fact the vast majority are heterosexual like most guys.
The UK Sports Council found in its recent extensive investigation into this issue that "Some current athletes and coaches described the inclusion of transgender people as being a genuine threat to the future of female sport. A summary of these views would be that women’s sport would be paying the price for men’s sport being unable, or unwilling, to be flexible and accommodating when it came to accepting transgender individuals."
Seems to me it's high time that guys form a "man up and show tolerance" movement aimed at getting members of the male sex to face up to, and take concerted steps to get over, the male prejudices and hostilities that make it so difficult for so many boys and men to be accepting and "inclusive" of those members of your own sex who wish they were girls/women and who prefer to dress, groom, wear their hair and think of/label themselves accordingly.
Men can also stiffen their backbones and show persons like Thomas, Telfer and Eastwood enough respect to treat them as intelligent grownups who are members of a plural society and thus shouldn't expect always to get their way and to have their every demand acceded to, instead of treating them toddlers who must be coddled and catered to constantly because they're supposedly too fragile and "dysphoric" to hear the word "no" without falling apart at the seams. Men can tell them frankly, "We understand that you'd prefer to be in women's sports and you really, really want to use the women's locker/change rooms, showers and toilets, but sorry you can't. It's not fair to girls and women. Girls and women don't want to have to compete against males, and it's wrong to tell them they must. And most girls and women are not keen on having to put up with dicks and balls, 'male entitlement' and 'the male gaze' in their locker change rooms, showers, toilets and such, either. But don't worry, we're more than happy to have you stay here with us, and we'll do all we can to make you feel safe, welcome and at home, and to make sure nobody mistreats you."