ehhhh wrote:
I wanted to chime and give a bravo to this thread. I read it early on, thought it had some potential to be a great one. It started very slow and I hadn't given it thought until today and - woah - it certainly did not disappoint.
I have to make a few observations, some have been made, some haven't:
- Not seeing the video makes it impossible to know exactly what happened.
- Both are at fault. There is no % involved - if you screwed up, then you screwed up. Both needed to stand up and apologize.
- Onto the thread: is anybody (other than the actual posters) buying what insulting supporters of the woman saying? I have seen some bad, biased trolls before, but c'mon, you are insulting our intelligence thinking we would believe all the insults and put-downs you are spewing. That is not going to win you over any supporters. If that is actually the guy pulling a troll trying to drum up dislike for her and her supporters, well then well done.
- Lastly, to all of the people who are not biased/involved in the story itself trying to make a decent conversation about this subject - I refer back to my 2nd point, just because somebody says that the woman has some fault does not have to be exclusively blaming her. I think the most reasonable responses have been those that place the place the blame on both - she should have had a better understanding of her surroundings and he needed to react with a bit more grace, either during the incident or afterward.
Either way, stop with all the name-calling - you are not helping your side of the discussion look any better. Just produce a video or move on KNOWING that you both came out of this showing poor examples of how to handle yourself and a situation.