Dwightarm wrote:
Lolllll this is hilarious !
Most grown ass men I know are the damaged ones (incl myself in this) And that whole ‘virgin ideal’ is some funny ass Victorian stuff right here.
Thanks for chiming in, Genetic Fitness Level = 0.
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Dwightarm wrote:
Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:
The idea is the lock down a virgin, or least experienced, best looking, youngest legal girl you can. A man gains experience, a woman gains mileage/baggage/damage. Otherwise, you're competing for the used leftovers.
Lolllll this is hilarious !
Most grown ass men I know are the damaged ones (incl myself in this) And that whole ‘virgin ideal’ is some funny ass Victorian stuff right here.The one guy I met who thought this was mentally ill, held some really bizarre old-fashioned views
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Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:
Durban wrote:
You stayed with the first girl you met when you were a teenager. Good for you but let's not pretend you employed any strategy to this 😂
No, I was in my twenties, she was younger, the way it is supposed to work. The idea is the lock down a virgin, or least experienced, best looking, youngest legal girl you can. A man gains experience, a woman gains mileage/baggage/damage. Otherwise, you're competing for the used leftovers.
What are you so concerned about then? You found your 18 year old virgin and presumably your children are adults or nearing adulthood by now and are genetic specimens. You can spend the next 40 odd years living out life happily. You have no need for advice from YouTube.
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LsdGrl wrote:
Dwightarm wrote:
Lolllll this is hilarious !
Most grown ass men I know are the damaged ones (incl myself in this) And that whole ‘virgin ideal’ is some funny ass Victorian stuff right here.The one guy I met who thought this was mentally ill, held some really bizarre old-fashioned views
Every guy feels this way, but only a few will admit to it, because they don't want to spoil their chances at their turn with the looser women.
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Weird thread.
In the Uk it's an unwritten rule you bang at least 20 girls before even considering settling.
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Mike Hock wrote:
Weird thread.
In the Uk it's an unwritten rule you bang at least 20 girls before even considering settling.
That's why the native British are going extinct. You'll be Muslims with "old fashioned" ideas about sex and marriage within 30 years.
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Let\'s tell it like it is wrote:
self aware ness wrote:
Of course appearance matters. But that’s clearly not your only problem. Your philosophy/outlook on life is also holding you back. Anyone who can off-the-cuff reference dozens of dumb “black pill” YouTube videos are demonstrating that they would have personality issues in connecting with women. It’s just more convenient to chalk it all up to physical attributes.
Hey dude...do you even comprehend anything I say? Let's try this again:
I'm an ultra-short, average-looking (at best) manlet (slang for a muscular, short guy trying to compensate by gym maxing). Newsflash: This does NOT attract Stacey's (slang for hot women). I attract overweight/obese unattractive women because guys like me are their backup plan & 2nd choice since they can't get any of the "Chads" - and they're not interested in overweight/obese guys that are similar to them. And of course, most of the Stacey's out there want the "Chads" as their first choice anyway. (geez...imagine that).
And if you think those black pill YouTube channels are "dumb - go set up a debate with one of them and see how far you get. Lol. They debate blue pillars like you all the time. The author of "48 laws of dating" will educate you very quickly (his YouTube channel is Smash TV) 😉
You are proving my point.
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Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:
LsdGrl wrote:
The one guy I met who thought this was mentally ill, held some really bizarre old-fashioned views
Every guy feels this way, but only a few will admit to it, because they don't want to spoil their chances at their turn with the looser women.
Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing
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LsdGrl wrote:
Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:
Every guy feels this way, but only a few will admit to it, because they don't want to spoil their chances at their turn with the looser women.
Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing
Not surprised. After reading this thread, I’m wondering if this incel-type of thinking is just Darwinian. They refuse to grow up, they then get weeded out of the population.
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LsdGrl wrote:
Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing
That's just one guy. Now imagine large entitled groups of angry women, so large they influence public polics and education, trying to lecture men into being aroused by obese/ugly/old women. Now, imagine a couple thousand of that one guy you know, putting on a male version of a Slut Walk, strutting around in just tighty whities with signs saying "This is what real men look like," and "Don't Rape Me Women!"
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Let\'s tell it like it is wrote:
self aware ness wrote:
Of course appearance matters. But that’s clearly not your only problem. Your philosophy/outlook on life is also holding you back. Anyone who can off-the-cuff reference dozens of dumb “black pill” YouTube videos are demonstrating that they would have personality issues in connecting with women. It’s just more convenient to chalk it all up to physical attributes.
Hey dude...do you even comprehend anything I say? Let's try this again:
I'm an ultra-short, average-looking (at best) manlet (slang for a muscular, short guy trying to compensate by gym maxing). Newsflash: This does NOT attract Stacey's (slang for hot women). I attract overweight/obese unattractive women because guys like me are their backup plan & 2nd choice since they can't get any of the "Chads" - and they're not interested in overweight/obese guys that are similar to them. And of course, most of the Stacey's out there want the "Chads" as their first choice anyway. (geez...imagine that).
And if you think those black pill YouTube channels are "dumb - go set up a debate with one of them and see how far you get. Lol. They debate blue pillars like you all the time. The author of "48 laws of dating" will educate you very quickly (his YouTube channel is Smash TV) 😉
How short is ultra short?
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Uncontrolled Hypergamy wrote:
LsdGrl wrote:
Actually I am not sure he’s ever been with a woman before. he was in and out of mental hospitals for years and suffered from borderline personality disorder. His anger at the idea that a woman would have choices was quite disturbing
That's just one guy. Now imagine large entitled groups of angry women, so large they influence public polics and education, trying to lecture men into being aroused by obese/ugly/old women. Now, imagine a couple thousand of that one guy you know, putting on a male version of a Slut Walk, strutting around in just tighty whities with signs saying "This is what real men look like," and "Don't Rape Me Women!"
You can choose by not sticking it in
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It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.
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brackish wrote:
It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.
Perhaps you have the wrong standards. They might be good lovers, kind and gentle people. Sounds like you have little experience with women.
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Let\'s tell it like it is wrote:
Armstronglivs wrote:
They obviously had more looks, charm and talent than most of the incels here.
I don't why you're so critical of the incel problem. There's a very concerning growing number of sexless young men with many of them already into their 30s! And not all of them are two-bit bums living in their parent's basement playing video games all day:
It's the combination of entitlement with misogyny that bothers me. It's too easy for guys like them to blame women for their lack of success with women. An ordinary woman will accept an ordinary guy if he basically shows he's an ok person. The standard is not impossibly high or we would have become extinct long ago. But these "basement dwellers" have too often become alienated from everyone, except other angry guys like themselves.
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Avery wrote:
brackish wrote:
It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.
Perhaps you have the wrong standards. They might be good lovers, kind and gentle people. Sounds like you have little experience with women.
Incels typically don't believe that they can make a genuine connection with a woman. The incel ideal isn't a healthy partnership. It's a power fantasy harem situation.
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Avery wrote:
brackish wrote:
It feels like 8/10 women I see on dating apps in my area are overweight. If it liking this is considered having too high standards then consider me single.
Perhaps you have the wrong standards. They might be good lovers, kind and gentle people. Sounds like you have little experience with women.
There are plenty of kind and gentle women in my life that don't have the best looks. They're called "friends." I have the right to want to date women I'm physically attracted to, sorry.
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I went on a date last Friday with a girl I matched on Tinder. After we got to talking, it turned out she was already married and they were just looking for new OnlyFans "models" for their channel.
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Avery wrote:
Taking Orders wrote:
If the mall is not the appropriate social setting to accept courting gestures, what is, in your view, a more relevant setting to strike up a conversation?
Most women would consider it an insult that a strange man approached them at a mall expecting to initiate an intimate relationship. Unless they are professionals.
There are in fact numerous dating sites to which women go in order to meet men. Or taverns. Or through friends. Perhaps you never get invited to parties. In fact I bet that's likely.
not my experience at all. why would the mall be any worse than any other place. public transportation is also a good place. most people taking it are bored either way. Being a bit unconventional can be good. Dating sites are the worst advice. Actually I consider anyone on a dating site a loser. Mostly people who only sit at home without any interesting activities or character. Stay away from anyone like that.
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