My girl would never want to go to "the club" in the first place (one of the many reasons I love her), but if she ever did, she'd know that getting sloppy and grinding on some random guy's crotch would signal the end of our relationship. Everyone has different boundaries though, so it's important to communicate them to avoid situations where people might be confused about what is and is not a "no no."
chayanne wrote:
Slowy showy wrote:
normal people don’t dance or grind with other people when they’re dating someone. .
Why not? What is you are at the club and they put on some salsa or bachata and you don't know how to dance to those and your partner wants to dance? Should your partner deprive themself of chance to dance because you've got two left feet.
I dance with other guys girls all the time. Not my fault you guys never learned to ballroom dance! Guys who can dance clean up, but don't learn how if you don't want - more fun for those of us who can!
What if one partner is into one thing and the other isn't? Is it OK to get it elsewhere?
I’d be pissed! Bad enough if she dirty danced without you, even worse since you were there. Huge disrespect. Big red flag. Start planning your exit.
Multiple issues. I shall start with two.
1) she is a slut and you should leave her while you can
2). Do not consume alcohol. Stay away from women who do
_jamie_ wrote:
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
What were you doing at the time?
wasted on the couch...very drunk
So you’re wasted on a couch, what a fun date you are! No wonder she was dancing with someone else.
I don't mind other guys dancing with my girl
That's fine, I know them all pretty well
But I know sometimes I must get out in the light
Better leave her behind with the kids, they're alright
The kids are alright
Sometimes, I feel I gotta get away
Bells chime, I know I gotta get away
And I know if I don't, I'll go out of my mind
Better leave her behind with the kids, they're alright
The kids are alright
I know if I go, things would be a lot better for her
I had things planned, but her folks wouldn't let her
I don't mind other guys dancing with my girl
That's fine, I know them all pretty well
But I know sometimes I must get out in the light
Better leave…