Stable Genius wrote:
There was an article from a few years ago, written by a guy who worked in admissions at Yale, "Don't send your kids to an Ivy League school".
The idea of, "failure" was very real for parents trying to get their children into these schools:
"Because for the parents of Shaker Heights, nothing would be more horrible and ignominious for their progeny to attend Ohio State, and its med school, and end up a surgeon in Dayton."
Let’s not kid ourselves: The college admissions game is not primarily about the lower and middle classes seeking to rise, or even about the upper-middle class attempting to maintain its position. It is about determining the exact hierarchy of status within the upper-middle class itself. In the affluent suburbs and well-heeled urban enclaves where this game is principally played, it is not about whether you go to an elite school. It’s about which one you go to. It is Penn versus Tufts, not Penn versus Penn State. It doesn’t matter that a bright young person can go to Ohio State, become a doctor, settle in Dayton, and make a very good living. Such an outcome is simply too horrible to contemplate.