Any 21 year old that is into dating a 40+ year old doesn't take a whole lot of effort to pick up. You'll pretty much know right away if she's into it.
Any 21 year old that is into dating a 40+ year old doesn't take a whole lot of effort to pick up. You'll pretty much know right away if she's into it.
thinking clearly wrote:
General Howe wrote:
How do you even meet someone that young when you are in your 40s?
Seriously, what a stupid question. It's like you're trying too hard to find something wrong. Uptight, much?
It was a simple and honest question. Not in any way trying to find something wrong.
Your response, on the other hand, is classic unprovoked defensiveness - demonstrating very clearly that there is something wrong with you.
I'm truly sorry that you are that much of a loser in life. And I honestly wish you the best to gain some maturity, perspective and self confidence.
Almost40anddateyounger wrote:
It's very easy to meet younger people if you're in a metropolitan area. And it helps if you follow these two rules:
1. Be attractive or have something to offer
2. Don't be unattractive.
For instance, I'm a 38 year old, twice-divorced guy, 3 kids, not a ton of spending cash, but I'm stable, halfway decent looking, have a good career and hobbies, and I'm generally a likable person. With apps like Bumble and Tinder, I have been able to meet a wide variety of women and many couldn't give two craps about my baggage.
thinking clearly is a good example of what you can do when you're upfront with the other person. Who cares what the age difference is if both people are honest about their intentions and upfront with what they want.
As long as I can maintain my health and looks into my 50's, I'll still be dating women in their early 20's and technology will help me do that.
Twice divorced - aka, a loser.
so much love for this random formula, yet so much hatred for calculo-ventolin's formulas, which though idiosyncratically applied do at least have some physics to them.
Sara Palin wrote:
easy arithmetic wrote:
(21-7)*2 = 28
^science
looks like math. Where is the science?
quitting wrote:
Sara Palin wrote:
^science
looks like math. Where is the science?
The science comes into play in that it takes into account the maturity and life experiences of the two people involved. The older people are the less importance the age difference.
Even though the results are the same, I always considered the formula to be half your age plus 7.
Obviously no limit..... if she will have you (and there's the 'rub').
Hefner wannabe wrote:
Well?
21+4(25/3)=33
33 is the upper limit , only in France though.
Free Advice wrote:
Even though the results are the same, I always considered the formula to be half your age plus 7.
With either formula, it falls apart after a certain age. Is there really a difference between a 60 year old dating a 35 year old or a 37 year old?
2014 at age 31 I got a bj from a 21 yo..she sucked my dick bare :)
Hazycosmicjive wrote:
Obviously no limit..... if she will have you (and there's the 'rub').
Yeah, and for the right price, sugar daddy.
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it kind of falls apart wrote:
Free Advice wrote:
Even though the results are the same, I always considered the formula to be half your age plus 7.
With either formula, it falls apart after a certain age. Is there really a difference between a 60 year old dating a 35 year old or a 37 year old?
The difference is two years, from a 2:26 Kara Goucher to a 2:37, from mid-30s to middle aged. The formula is never wrong.
The answer is 28. The rule is half your age plus 7.
28 / 2 + 7 = 21.
Hugh Hefner was 86 when he married a 26 year old.
I'm sure he dated some 21 year olds while he was in his 80s.
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My sister was seeing a guy over 30 years old when she was 21. Before I met him I thought there was nothing wrong with it, but after I met him I was bothered by the situation for a long time.
I’m not saying it’s always like this, but he was like a man-child... really immature. I’m not sure if he was just trying to appeal to my sister by being “fun” or something. And I guess that’s fine if neither of them was looking for something serious, but I don’t think it would have ever made a successful long term relationship. Too much of a difference in maturity and lifestyles. He was definitely abnormally immature though.
Again, that’s only my experience in one situation, but I think over 30 is too old to have a real “relationship” with a 21 year old in most circumstances. Your lives will probably be too different. She will probably still have some growing up to do, and by 30 one should probably be coming close to being done maturing.
Almost40anddateyounger wrote:
It's very easy to meet younger people if you're in a metropolitan area. And it helps if you follow these two rules:
1. Be attractive or have something to offer
2. Don't be unattractive.
For instance, I'm a 38 year old, twice-divorced guy, 3 kids, not a ton of spending cash, but I'm stable, halfway decent looking, have a good career and hobbies, and I'm generally a likable person. With apps like Bumble and Tinder, I have been able to meet a wide variety of women and many couldn't give two craps about my baggage.
thinking clearly is a good example of what you can do when you're upfront with the other person. Who cares what the age difference is if both people are honest about their intentions and upfront with what they want.
As long as I can maintain my health and looks into my 50's, I'll still be dating women in their early 20's and technology will help me do that.
Good to see Matt Foley is on our boards. This guy sounds like a real catch. What do women think of your van down by the river.
comedyrelief wrote:
Good to see Matt Foley is on our boards. This guy sounds like a real catch. What do women think of your van down by the river.
I never claimed to be a catch. I'm honest to people about the choices I've made in life and the lessons I've learned in the process. It makes me humble and relate-able.
Sure, some women bounce as soon as I tell them, but on average, most will give me a chance. If they don't, no biggie. I know not everyone is mature enough to understand that people make mistakes or poor choices.
I see you use the fomula. this is the correct answer, folks.