life dreams 101 wrote:
This guy and I met 2 weeks ago and started chatting and texting. Last weekend, we decided to go get coffee this weekend (tomorrow). Our conversation was on Monday, where we agreed on a time and then he asked if I lived in (same vicinity). I said I did and that was the last text.
We're supposed to meet tomorrow afternoon. If he doesn't text to confirm, should I ask him if we're still on even though I sent the last text? Not sure what the etiquette is here.
My God, this thread was over in first response . What's with all These petty responses? A stupid generation turned on by gossip and the immediacy of garbage novelty? Just like social media has become? You idiots don't even know how you got here, what social media came out of (earlier days of the internet). In dating and love there are so many things to be done, so many possible activities, combinations of activities, feelings and manifestations. The only regret should be that first encounters might close the doors to further activities.
Stupid arbitrary generation. Organize thyself. Remember the days of thy life together, rather than coasting from day to day like a pinball, influenced by the latest combination of irrelevant bs. A generation of runners that knows how to be petty and compete and be greedy but defames itself with unmagnificence in social doings. Coffee dates are stupid. They are only a necessity since if you don't know someone well yet, often you have to default on this. Oh god, what a pleb way of thinking. Get to the higher level, of momentum and chemistry. Think about the actual complexity, so many demographics, so many settings, so many combinations of his or her friends and your friends, of privacy and public, of feelings and activities. Quit bantering and get some sh1t done! Do something impressive. Whatever you do, do it well! You scalawags can run like fiends, push it to the limit in love! Let's go!!