If SM, you are the M, that's why
If SM, you are the M, that's why
You must have seen that other thread, well Bruce Jenner is not really a girl.
I find it sexy as hell as well. Most if not all the women that I have been with that smoked were good in bed, freaky and sexy as hell. Not to mention the going down on a woman with a lot cigarette and her hand on my head is more than I can take.
Enjoy your fantasy. Totally cool
confused guy wrote:
I've never smoked a cigarette in my life. I hate the smell and imagine I'd hate the taste. I've never even kissed a girl who's smoked, so I don't know how that would affect kissing. For some reason though, when I see a girl smoking, I'm instantly turned on. What the heck? Is something wrong with me?
There are subreddits devoted to cuckolds and other guys who wish to be pegged like yourself.
Hot chick with good teeth smoking a cig = hot.
Nasty chick with meth mouth smoking a cig = not hot.
Short answer: oral fixation.
Question for you: has a woman ever sucked you off?
Advertising ... you associate sexy with smoking, because that's what been sold.
My wife smokes four to five times per month. I think it’s kind of hot. She picked in up in college. She also runs too.
If you didn’t already know, lots of people are closet smokers. Half the women in my wife’s book club/wine night group smoke and they don’t tell their husbands.
It’s not a big deal if done casually, which lots do.
confused guy wrote:
I've never smoked a cigarette in my life. I hate the smell and imagine I'd hate the taste. I've never even kissed a girl who's smoked, so I don't know how that would affect kissing. For some reason though, when I see a girl smoking, I'm instantly turned on. What the heck? Is something wrong with me?
I have the same fetish. I've never smoked and I would hate to actually live with a smoker.
If I see a man smoking I immediately think he's an idiot with no brains and no will power. Yet if it's an attractive woman I find it very erotic.
I don't get it either but there are much worse fetishes out there.
Just noticed this thread is 7 years old... what the hell people?
confused guy wrote:
I've never smoked a cigarette in my life. I hate the smell and imagine I'd hate the taste. I've never even kissed a girl who's smoked, so I don't know how that would affect kissing. For some reason though, when I see a girl smoking, I'm instantly turned on. What the heck? Is something wrong with me?
You gave it away in your first sentence. “I’ve never …” but you see something “risky & different” … You’re essentially looking at who you want to be. It’s not the girl & what she’s doing. It’s a reflection on who you aren’t & desire to be. You’re safe & stagnant & you hate that about yourself bc you’ve seen your limitations but have no idea what to do to change the reality you despise. If I knew how you were raised I could nail it more, but self reflect & process not on the “what” but on the “who”
Don’t you know the adage as old as time..”if she smokes, she pokes”
Bill Noface wrote:
confused guy wrote:
I've never smoked a cigarette in my life. I hate the smell and imagine I'd hate the taste. I've never even kissed a girl who's smoked, so I don't know how that would affect kissing. For some reason though, when I see a girl smoking, I'm instantly turned on. What the heck? Is something wrong with me?
You gave it away in your first sentence. “I’ve never …” but you see something “risky & different” … You’re essentially looking at who you want to be. It’s not the girl & what she’s doing. It’s a reflection on who you aren’t & desire to be. You’re safe & stagnant & you hate that about yourself bc you’ve seen your limitations but have no idea what to do to change the reality you despise. If I knew how you were raised I could nail it more, but self reflect & process not on the “what” but on the “who”
Well that's absurd...
This goes both ways. A lot of women find men smoking to be hot.
This isn't complicated. It's due to decades of movies and advertisements in which cool, "bad guy / girl" characters smoked. You don't notice it, but over time one gradually associates cigarettes with sexyness after seeing countless scenes of people like James Dean and Angelina Jolie seductively taking drags.
It is because women who smoke have low self esteem and are willing to do risky things. Some men see those qualities as vulnerable and easy to exploit. It is similar to seeing a helpless woman on the side of the road with a broken down car or a drunk woman at a bar. Some guys see this as a situation they can take advantage of.
KTHXBAI wrote:
Short answer: oral fixation.
Question for you: has a woman ever sucked you off?
Women who smoke also like an@l.
You are not into long term relationships??
JonElk wrote:
It is because women who smoke have low self esteem and are willing to do risky things.
I dated a girl in college for smoked and she doesn't fit this description. I asked her why she did and she said it feels good to do, and was a major stress reliever for her and she didn't do it enough to make it habitual. I think it was a more social thing for her. She was a fairly confident person and went on to be a Physicians Assistant.
She was well aware of the side effects and health concerns but she mentioned that me not sleeping more than 5 hours a night, crushing beers after my shift as a waiter and general neurotic and compulsive behavior wasn't healthy either. Point taken. People judge smokers all the time for taking part in a bad habit, but there far worse deviant things that non-smokers do.
Because they're SMOKIN' hot???
Bad girls, bad girls, whatcha gonna do?