I am 100% anti rape and my views on crime and punishment are over to the right. Like everyone else I have no idea what really went down in this situation but here are a few of my concerns..
Someone said it would not matter if they were dating. Really? How many of you men have dated girls who once or twice gave you a nice wake up call under the covers, if you know what I mean. Is that rape?
I actually have 2 male friends who at some point have woken up drunk at a party or after a night out etc with a girl riding them. Of course they loved it but say they didn't and went to the police about it, would it be taken seriously? I doubt it.
Assuming he wasn't forced to make the statement he did the male in this case has admitted he was in the wrong. However how many thousands of men have had consensual sex with a woman only for the women to decide once she has woken/sobered that it wasn't consensual and bang the male is a rapist. His word against her's. They had sex so the evidence is there but unless its on tape!! there is no evidence of consent/lack of and its up to the man to clear his name which is nearly impossible to fully do.